Can you elaborate on this?

After I got sex from a girl, I think I acted too gamey. (I've always heard in the pua community, don't stop doing what made her like you.) I've also sent those 6 needy texts in a row and been doing a strange balancing act of into-you and not-into-you.

I guess I was trying to keep the mystery up. I dont mean to hijack a thread, but can you or anyone else elaborate on the not being too gamey after the lay? I have never heard that mindset yet but yeah it makes sense. I was thinking about not talking to this chick for 3 days because we did it last week and I think I showed too much neediness then gameyness. Now I think maybe its not a good idea.

Yeh to elaborate, you don't need to be that gamey. Even before the sex.

Some basic text rules are still good to keep in mind such as:
Don't over invest.
Don't reply too quick, at least wait the same time it takes her to respond to you
Don't be boring and generic like most chodes.

But after you boned a girl, all you need is to pretty much be normal because the girl has gave the biggest investment there is (her vagina) , this is all that's needed

You- hey, how are you?
Her- hey, I'm good, how are you? X
You- in doing good too, when are you free to hang out again?
Her- Thu sounds good?
You- splendid.

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Dude, it's time to meet again. Every text you send has to have a purpose of some sort. A lot of the times its rebuilding attraction and then pushing for a meetup.

Don't ask her when she's free, tell her to meet you, at a specific time and a specific place.

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Preston's Game Log - Please critique

well pebble I managed to get a date planned for Tuesday night, by being straight to the point! if she flakes that night then I know not to waste my time ! cheers for advice mate!

Not sure if any one is reading this still?

So I got a flake from her because of work (even though she had said to me she didn't have work that night when we made plans)!! I just acted cool ( aww tell your boss hes a dick for making you miss out , soo your shout next time, have fun at work ) , went out any way and invited someone else.

she didn't apologise or anything just kept txting me afterwards to see if I was still going (test) and then said are you going to come see me ( at her work) to which I replied aw im with friends now, a wee while later.

She txt me way later that night seeing what I was up to , and I gave no reply yet!!!

I have a funny feeling she thinks im just gana use her for sex, but wants more. So is putting me through this b/s even though Ive already slept with her!

Soooo she's smoking and cool as to hang with, do I bother with continuing the txt and try for another time ( or let her?) or confront her by saying something like yooo I don't wana play games , we had a good vibe going last time we hung, if you can't make a time , then it was nice to know you , I'm glad we met

Peace!