You want your words to always have an impact. You want them to be emphatic. The goal of talking is to overwhelm your consciousness and change the direction its flowing in. I know a few ways to do this 1.) Surprise- pick up a cherry colored cake and let it taste like lemonade its going to shock the shit out of you and get your attention 2.) Intense emotion- think of a drill sargent, a preacher. When you're talkin your trying to build up the insentity of an emotion you do this thru a very forceful phrase or repition ect... Sometimes my internal volume is very loud, but soft words can be spoken intensly too. 3.) repition- if one punch odesnt do the job, try 4.) Emphatic- something I like to do whne talking to others or to myself is use dramatic pauses. I'm good, I'm good...(pause a second) I 'm good! 5.) "Bravity is the soul of wit" (William Shakespeare) short phrases are the most impactful. Because. . .The shorter it is, the surer you seem.


But you have to stay on yourself. It is very hard to make yourself into the man you want to be. The best thing to do is to just change your routine and thats going to change your habits. But, remember soldiers have drill sargents, boxers have trainers, athletes have coaches. ITs really hard to stay mentally strong at all time or to even be aware when you are slipping. The other person is to push you when you lose attention and even to motivate you when you lose heart. However, some of us dare to make our selves.

Mouthpiece: (how to talk to yourself) You want your words to always have an impact. You want them to be emphatic. The goal of talking is to overwhelm your consciousness and change the direction its flowing in. I know a few ways to do this 1.) Surprise- pick up a cherry colored cake and let it taste like lemonade its going to shock the shit out of you and get your attention 2.) Intense emotion- think of a drill sargent, a preacher. When you're talkin your trying to build up the insentity of an emotion you do this thru a very forceful phrase or repition ect... Sometimes my internal volume is very loud, but soft words can be spoken intensly too. 3.) repition- if one punch odesnt do the job, try 4.) Emphatic- something I like to do whne talking to others or to myself is use dramatic pauses. I'm good, I'm good...(pause a second) I 'm good! 5.) "Bravity is the soul of wit" (William Shakespeare) short phrases are the most impactful. Because. . .The shorter it is, the surer you seem.

Emotional Memory( your words are suppose to mean certain things)- someone could call you a dumbass, and if that invoked pride and confidence in you that would be an affirmation. So it is very important that you think about what your words are supposed to mean. The force of expereicne. Experience is so important it has an effect on your subconscious expectations and feelings, but also an experience that gave you a great feeling is something you can always reflect on to inspire you.


But you have to stay on yourself. It is very hard to make yourself into the man you want to be. The best thing to do is to just change your routine and thats going to change your habits. But, remember soldiers have drill sargents, boxers have trainers, athletes have coaches. ITs really hard to stay mentally strong at all time or to even be aware when you are slipping. The other person is to push you when you lose attention and even to motivate you when you lose heart. However, some of us dare to make our selves.

Understanding Pressure

naturall people want to get away from what feels bad and they want to do what feels good. Sometimes you're instincts are doing the right thing and sometimes they are not. you are an AFC because you do whats natural but its not smart. Its natural to want to tell a pretty girl she is beautiful and to give her all your attention its as natural as swimming along with the current, but you can't always go along with the current if you want to go where you want to get to be where you want to be...in fact it may end up drowning you. Many pretty girls get annoyed by how men just keep complimenting them all the time in fact. Many guys fail because their weaknesses are exploited. The things that they are unsure about are tested. What do you do when a hot girl disrespects you? What do you do when a hot girl flirts with someone else? What do you do when a hot irl doesn't call you? What do you do when a guy tries to take your girl? A lot of guys breakdown mentally and do crazy things because of the pressure these things puts on them. Or they just don't know what to do. The thing is this ...compliments work best when you compliment an area that a girl is insecure about. If she feels stupid tell her she is smart, affirm her like you affirm yourself. If she had a bad day at work, cheer her up make her not worry...tell her she should be the boss on her job.If she feels like she can't dance, tell her she can. If she is insecure about her weight tell her she is beautiful . its not lying if you believe it. Confident guys get girls because its so pleasant to be around, because they reassure them. You reassure the girl, you solidify and cement the areas in her life that she is insecure about then she will love you. She will be loyal to you. Then if you like her stay with her and if you leave her you will leave her stronger and better than when you met her.

Bottom line is a girl likes you when you are pleasant to be around, but she does not respect you if you kiss her ass.

General vs. Specific confidence

Specific confidence is believing and feeling secure abput your ability to do a specific task like cook chicken, drive a car or ride a bike. General confidence is think you are great, or you are cool or you are special and that general belief tells (through your thoughts and expectations of those worlds that) you that you can cook, or drive or ride a bike. Perfection is within. You are perfect you just have to work to show it. Before you do something you have to believe that you can then your experience validates that belief.


Trusting Others You have to test people for sincerity. Here are some things to look for.

1.) Do the words and actions sound genuine. Emotionally true. DO the words and actions sound inconsistent with the emotion they convey.

2.) Do they talk about people behind their backs? If they do, whats stopping them from talking about you?

3.) are they nice to everyone?

4.) are they nice to you yet still doing things to hurt you or doing things against your best interest?

WHAT YOU HAVE TO BE MINDFUL OF IS THAT WHEN PEOPLE ARE NICE YOU OPEN UP TO THEM NATUALLY BECAUSE YOU THINK ITS SAFE BUT ITS NOT.

Subconcsious Mind & Affirmations:

Impactful words and the Repitiion of words create instincts in your subconscious to think about those words and to feel the way that those words make you feel. Instincts to think about those words more often and instinct to have your mind actually set, cemented on those particular words and feelings. That is the goal of the affirmations to have your mind set and securely positive in general or in a particular area (like basketball or acting or singing).

These words chane how you consciously feel ala you feel nervous and you affirm yourself then you become confident. You consciously fight off negative feelings so you do what you want to do. These words also change how you feel subconsciously ala you naturally feel confident in a particular situation because you have "built yourself up" so much in that arena.

Its all about habits: You drink water when you are thirsty without thinking about it because you have the habit of doing that, you go to the bathroom when you feel the urge because you have the habit of doing that, you eat food because you have the habit of doing that, you put your seat belt on without even thinking about it because you have a habit of it, you go to certain websites without even thinking because you have a habit of it. You want to be able to approach a hot girl a certain way because you have a habit of it.


However, affirmations are ultimately a way to define your reality. If you know a pretty girl will say yes nothing will stop you from talking to her. If you know a bully won't hurt you then you will stand up to him. If you know people will laugh you will tell jokes. Your knowlede is based in what you believe and your beliefs define your reality. However, I talk about emotion emotion because your emotions drive your beliefs. Alot people talk about beliefs and think the way you want and never realize how feelings affect people so they never change or improve. A man changes when he changes how he feels (as that changes what he is driven to do or think).

The Importance of Focus:

Focus is usually important so that you know what to do. But when I say focus, I mean all your energies into what you want to accomplish. Within us we have drives...food drives, sex drives, pride. We want love, we want financial security. A man must be able to reflect on himself and think about what he wants? Why do you do the things that you do? Do you want affection? Attention? Validation? Are you afraid? Are you angry and what to take it out on something? All these things are what drive us.

When I say focus you take all drives and you focus it on what you want to achieve. So if you tell yourself I am not going to eat all day if I don't talk to this girl, if you tell yourself I will never have any kind of sex again if i dont approach this woman (see modern man has a way out...the internet lol), what if you tell yourself if I pull this girl then all the guys will respect me, if I pull this girl my dad will be proud of me, if you tell yourself if I pull this girl shes gonna be my sugar momma and by me good shit, If i don't pull this girl I am going to literally just drop dead....i guarantee you would approach the girl because you have focused your energies intensely upon her and believed these statements (these energy focusing affirmations). Now back to affirmations , by repeating your affirmations you believe, you would believe those statements. And those statements would pysche you up. Notice how I use fear as fire. You have to be able to take disrespect, fear, doubt, hurt and focus it.

Michael Jordan once said "my pain was my motivation"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PH8nTfxwByY

This is MJ's hall of Fame speech
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLzBMGXfK4c

A lot of people did not like his speech because of how angry and bitter it sounded. However, in his speech he was talking about how he took negative energy directed at him and refocused it in a productive direction in order to motivate him to succeed and become the best player of all time. It does not matter if it is right or wrong, true or false all that matters is that it worked. And these feelings would have been inside of him any way these drives were within him but instead of letting them work against him or go to no use...he used them.


Here are the rules of Focus:
1.) The certainty that something you don't want to happen will happen if you do something will discourage you.

2.) The certainty that something you want to really happen will happen if you do something will encourage you.


"A man should not strive to eliminate his complexes but to get into accord with them: they are legitimately what directs his conduct in the world." (Sigmund Freud)

My god this topic is full of mental cumming and cock stroking.

It's quite simple.

If you cant even a touch a girl let alone say HELLO to her, HOW DO YOU EXPECT TO PUT YOUR PENIS INSIDE OF HER!

FOR FUCKS SAKES GUYS!!!!!!

smh, dim Behaviorist

This entire post smacks of retardedness.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why do you feel the need to say that?

Feelings drive behaviors...

Dude...I get you're trying to give positive affirmations here, but the core...hard reality...the most fucked up one is this that guys need to be ...self-masochistic to themselves:

If you cannot ....ACCEPT your manhood and get over that traumatizing fear IMMEDIATELY and you go into therapy about it..it can take years. The fact is, if you want immediate results with women (ones aimed for people with terrible AA) you need to expose yourself immediately to them.

YES IT TAKES time, but the reality is if you cannot feel good hugging her, kissing her, saying hi to her, talking to her by BEING YOU...you will never, ever, in a million fucking years of reading positive thoughts...fuck her.

You two guys are just hating. I don't know if its jealous or if its fear that they way that you think and game is wrong. I don't know what it is, but you guys need to go away if you don't have anything positive to say.

I have noticed the posts that Captain and Agent make and they are usualy negative. You discourage people and make them feel bad about themselves. I am doing the opposite.

Now you may disagree with me, but I can prove everything that i say. It is backed up by the lives of tons of famous, historical and honorable people.

The goal of the game is the behave like a pua...but you can't behave like one if you don't have the right feelings.

All a therapist will do is ask you questions and give you medicine. They won't give you what these guys need REASSURANCE. WHEN PEOPLE ARE INSECURE THEY NEED REASSURANCE, but people usually just look down on insecure people. Its sad.

And this does help people be themselves. Confidence removes pyshcological barriers stoping you from being everything you want to be. People every where want to do things but can't not because of legitimate reasons but because their minds are SUPPRESSED. SUPPRESSED by fear, by shame. What you have to understand is many people are trapped by their subconscious. They are paralyzed by there feelings.

YOU CAN'T GET THE RIGHT FEELINGS UNTIL YOU INTERNALIZE inner game concepts with REAL experiences.

Them reading all this retarded affirmations about HONORABLE (arguable) historical people is UTTER bullshit. Those people hardly GOT LAID.

The reality is, you need to stop cock-stroking them with good emotions and be a little TOUGH on them. The reality is, people with AA DEEP DOWN KNOW this, they regret not doing anything MINUTE BY MINUTE, and they know on a core level what I'm saying is RIGHT and 'backed by proof' in their own fucking heads everytime they say "Fuck I HATE MYSELF"

EVERYTHING you post here is nonsense and garbage AT BEST. The reality is anyone with AA needs to dive in. If you're afraid of sharks, DIVE INTO A SHARK TANK. DO IT. RECLAIM YOUR BALLS!