No. Just no.

All of that is wrong, because it comes from a place of reaction, of neediness, of insecurity. FREE YOURSELF.

Balance your emotions with your brain, God gave it to you for a reason.

Ill answer your questions right now if u want.
Her intentions in dating you: Shes a woman, she lives off of attention and loves getting affection for free. Its not rocket science
Why she didnt want a relationship: You presented a convenient but not ideal solution to her need for attention. In other words, you were the shiniest object until something shinier came long. Nothing else. Accept that.

Does it hurt? Good. If you had called, she would have lied to spare your feelings, she would have talked all sweet to confuse you, and your ego will have been protected but your balls will have been removed.

Should you curse her now? Hate her? Lash out at women? No. You should wish her well and hope she finds what she is looking for. You should accept that it wasnt you and be a man and work yourself to make yourself the best you could be. Not for her but for yourself mate.

What would have calling her achieved? Its just your ego that was hurt, realize that it will accomplish nothing. Dont even bother calling to tell her off, because that would still be coming from a place of reaction. You dont need that negativity in your life and she doesnt deserve it (no matter what some other board members would say).

I dont know if you get what I mean, Ill elaborate more if you want.
In the mean time, put this behind you. Understand that the world is an illusion subject to your will. Your mind overpowers EVERYTHING. These are super powers that you possess, and you are now fully in charge of the direction your life is going to take. Its up to you to choose the path you want.

TheMack

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Im glad I could help, dont hesitate to ask if you need anything.

I did a lot of reading yes. But the works that influenced me the most was religious scripture. If you havnt read the Bhagavad Gita yet - do so. It is amazing.

Take a look at the Secret also, and What the Bleep Do We Know?

Im in no way pushing religion on anyone, I didnt convert to Hinduism after reading the book either lol.

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Well I will take a look I enjoy reading cause I hate ignorance and knowledge is wealth ... so yea I will see the secret is great inner game shit I agree... I am a multimillionaire in my mind! Seriously I have an ego problem people tell me, um no I am just confident as fuck I will be rich. Im 18 and already own a business and working on establishing my acting career, and get 2k a month for 5 hrs minimum, I seriously went to my hs teachers and said fuck you to them and then threw a 5 at the bitchiest one

Wow that was a rant, I had a bad day! But yea i will look into the others.

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You must have misunderstood the nature of my posts. Your behavior is reactive and completely against the concept of being centered. Why would you go tell your teacher to fuck off and throw money at her? You are still young and you act on impulse, but learn to harness your emotions and balance them with calculating logic.

I didnt ask you to tell me how well you are doing, its not my business. Don't get me wrong, I am happy that you have an attitude of success but if people are telling you you have an ego problem, its not because you are confidant, it is because your shoving your ego in people's faces (see your post about how you behave with your teachers).

If you wanna be rich, FINE. You wanna be happy - FINE! Do all of what makes you happy, I encourage that 100000%. Just don't do it as a reaction to other people. Don't do it to shove it in your teacher's face or because people said you had an ego problem, do it because as a man you want to achieve your full potential and leave behind your gift in this world. YES, your gift. Not hurting other people, not being violent or rude. Leave behind kindness. What makes a man if he is not trying to improve the world in which he lives?

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Well yea it was immature but she gave me a 70 and said she wont give me a 90 cause she disliked me, but it felt so good to do haha. But I hear ya point, I was just saying how the secret is a good book for mindset, than I vented :p

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Hey Mack,

Thanks for your reaction again! It did a lot to me.

"That my friend is why it pains me to tell you that in all likelihood, you will not get her. Im sorry brother, but you have failed Recognize that these are not genuine feelings, merely obsession."

That was not the responese I was hoping for, but I am glad that you are being honest with me. But I will thank god for this experience, and that I am a blessed guy for dating such beatiful women. The main thing i learnt from this, is that I still have to improve my life in any possible way, as long as I possibly can. Ofcourse it hurts a bit, but you helped me get over most of it. I went out last night and met some nice women. Just to forget a little about last week.

The girl texted me again btw, to congratulate me on my bday, with some hearts in the text. I just thanked her for thinking about it. And did not respond anymore. I think this was the best thing to do. Do you agree?

Still I got a got some stuff in my room that is from her, any suggestions in how to give it back, should i just hand it over the next time i see her, or wait 'till she misses it?

Next week I will turn of my phone for a week, just as you suggested, think that would be good for me. Will keep you posted on that.

"Does it hurt? Good. If you had called, she would have lied to spare your feelings, she would have talked all sweet to confuse you, and your ego will have been protected but your balls will have been removed. "

That made my day, your so funny! But yet so true.

I got another question Mack, what if she starts to flirt with me? Should I ignore it, or just tell her to stop. Or try again?

"I dont know if you get what I mean, Ill elaborate more if you want.
In the mean time, put this behind you. Understand that the world is an illusion subject to your will. Your mind overpowers EVERYTHING. These are super powers that you possess, and you are now fully in charge of the direction your life is going to take. Its up to you to choose the path you want."

That is very clear for me, that is what I am going to do now, I feel a bit better thank to you!

"I didnt realize I was on my death bed :p Im here as long as you need me mate. "

Hehe, I didn't mean that, hope you will be around for a long time mate!

Thanks

PostiveVibe

For people who deal with the same kind of situation, this video made me feel alot better. I am not completely over the "obsession", but i think I will be over it soon!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNovswAlmio

Enjoy

And ofcourse read through this whole thread, The Mack gave me some of the best replies I've seen in my life.

All the best,

PositiveVibe

Another update,

Saw her around town, and she came to me and was asking me how i was doing. We kept talking for like 10 minutes. I pretend not to care about what happend. Like 8 hours later she texted me that she regrets that we no longer talk. And misses me.

What is the best way to respond? Should i give her a last change?

Thanks

PositiveVibe

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That was not the responese I was hoping for, but I am glad that you are being honest with me. But I will thank god for this experience, and that I am a blessed guy for dating such beatiful women. The main thing i learnt from this, is that I still have to improve my life in any possible way, as long as I possibly can. Ofcourse it hurts a bit, but you helped me get over most of it. I went out last night and met some nice women. Just to forget a little about last week.

Cool, but going out and banging a bunch of women is just a band-aid for deeper problems. Work on yourself, do the exercises I told you. Make yourself flawless as a man and just watch while the world opens its doors up to you.

The girl texted me again btw, to congratulate me on my bday, with some hearts in the text. I just thanked her for thinking about it. And did not respond anymore. I think this was the best thing to do. Do you agree?

You did well.

Still I got a got some stuff in my room that is from her, any suggestions in how to give it back, should i just hand it over the next time i see her, or wait 'till she misses it?

Who gives a fuck? Give it back to her, its not your stuff and why do you care if she misses it or not?

Next week I will turn of my phone for a week, just as you suggested, think that would be good for me. Will keep you posted on that.

I got another question Mack, what if she starts to flirt with me? Should I ignore it, or just tell her to stop. Or try again?

None of the above. She wont try to flirt with you because you have cut all contact with her, she is no longer relevant. Be a man. If she goes out of your way to find you... "try again?"... REALLY? Have you listened to NOTHING I just told you? You look her in the eye, and tell her you have no time in your life for games little girls play, and you walk away with your head held high.. BE A MAN.


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"Saw her around town, and she came to me and was asking me how i was doing. We kept talking for like 10 minutes. I pretend not to care about what happend."

Stop pretending and start being free. As long as she has a hold on your emotions, she owns you. Where is your pride? Go out there, do something crazy, find a passion, live your life. You dont need her.

"Like 8 hours later she texted me that she regrets that we no longer talk. And misses me."

She doesnt. She misses the attention you showered on her, because she is a woman, and women adore attention. Be a man. She doesnt respect you and a woman can never be attracted to a man she does not respect. Understand?

"What is the best way to respond? Should i give her a last change?"

Do you actually want me to answer that?

Happy new Year
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