Well, if she doesn't want to fuck, then you SHOULD NOT NOT NOT verbalize it.
Just get yourself out of the 'I want to fuck her so bad'-mode, because girls sense it, and abuse it.
So when she's pushing you away, you just look at her. You're then thinking, what the FUCK?! And then you just turn away and start doing something else, like texting on your phone.
And ofcourse you should game other women. The more women you get to take home with you while she knows/sees it, the more she wants you. Your mindstate will be:' I like you, but you won't do the things I want. So I need other women.'
I dont know how the girl that youre talking about is, but in general it should work.
It could have the opposite effect, that is that she thinks you want to make her jealous, so she will bring (probably a lot more) men home, to make you jealous. I definitely don't hope so, but always treat her right.
Another option: She is into you, cause you're holding hands and stuff. But she's not an easy girl, she doesn't want to appear like slut in your eyes, so she withholds her pussy. That kind of girls are good GF material, they will cheat a lot less, and has her principles.
Nobody knows

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