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.in my home town(hong kong) i can get a lot of gals , my best record is 6k-close and 1 f-close on the same night.......but right now i am stayin in england, i can still get wif gals.....but not many, probably 1 or 2 gals when i go clubbing......
There are plenty of reasons why that's happening. It could be that you connect to women on a deaper level in Hong Kong because you are actually Asian. It could be deviations in social norms or women in Hong Kong may not have an as high ego as our women here in Britian. I don't believe it has anything to do with your skin colour or the way you look as it has been well proven that women are primarily attracted to men with inner and social strength. So don't allow the fact that your Asian deminish your confidence.
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i was jus about to use my opener, but one of the guys shouted at me 'fuck off, ching!!!"....in this situation, wt should i do??how should i respond to that???
This is annoying for me to explain but you have to accept that there are some British people who are so natively chauvinistic that they initially hate others who aren't them. That's all, you can't do nothing about that apart from accept it as a fact. If this happens again, ignore the dude and continue with the conversation. After all, who will women respect more? This racist man who's an obvious asshole or you? You've provided them with interesting conversation and has connected to them at a deeper level. If he comes in again, you won't need to take care of him, they will.