I got this girl who likes me. I like her a little too much. I want to fuck her.

I am going to a club tonight and she knows I like her. She told me lets just be friends.

I want to fuck her. What should I do at the club? Should I just start kissing her? Should I stand around like a puppy? Should I just be cool and have a good time.

If the later then how should I act around her. Maybe I shouldn't care so much about her. It sucks that she means so much to me. I didn't show it because she told me she felt pressure. Well now she is getting really distant. This is like my last chance I feel like. I can't handle this friend shit.

Sincerely,
Magnum45

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I thought you only post on here to redicule our guidance, and now you are asking for help?

try to make her jealous of you by seeing/sarging other woman around her.

True - to a certain point. When she sees that you're socializing with other women, she might or might not get jealous. Anyhow, make sure you start gaming her later that night as well. Don't just socialize with other women and leave her by herself. Because if you do that - chances are that somebody else is gonna take her/game her.

Last night I told Jill how I felt about her and that I really cared. She said that takes courage.

Before last night I found out that Jill was intrested in this guy named adriano. He is my firend and she was/still is obessed with him. . I just found out that she really liked him before the club. At the club, I told her I invited adriano, but that he didn't want to come because Jill was going to be there. Telling her that adriano didn't want to see her pissed her off. I had to console her for a while, then I played the cube on her cause I didn't have anything else to say. After that, we went outside and she smoked a cig.

Then some girls came by and picked her up and took her to the dance floor. I didn't really know what to do, so I walked to the bar, but then changed my mind, and stood against a pole. As I was standing on the pole, I started talking to this girl that I knew. She started following me around because she was drunk, and I'm good looking and nice. Jill started talking to other guys. I was just hanging out. Then I saw her walk past me. She kind of pretended I wasn't there, but I grabbed her arm and introduced her to my friend that was following me around. She moved on. Then started talking to some loser guy.

A couple of weeks before, I remembered an instance from a previous bar, when I was out with my girlfriends and my friend Cat told me to save my other friend Alice -- from some nice good looking bar guy. I was nervous, but I just walked to them and started talking to Alice. I totally blew the random bar dude out of the water -- even though he was a nice guy.

Back in the club I remembered that I should save Jill from the loser guy, but I lacked the courage to reapproach. I was just as nervous now, as I was in the previous bar with Alice, but this time I didn't have a friend telling me to "save her", and I had to do it on my own.

I finially built up the courage to go talk to her after I realized my parking meter had expired. So, I just walked up and touched her slightly on the shoulder, she turns to me with open body languange like "thank god!" I thought maybe I should of just saved her like I orginially thought, but instead I said "good bye, I have to go". She is like OK and I leave.

So that's what happened.

I saw her again today. We volunteered together for some film screening. She didn't even want to ride home with me. I think she assumed I have the wrong intentions with her. I guess it is like those girls that throw themselves on me. That is what I did with Jill. I just told her how I felt about her.

Some people believe that you can just tell people how you feel about them, but I don't think that works. She is still nice to me, but she doesn't want to ride home with me. She used to let me give her rides all the time. After I started caring for her, she doesn't allow me to give her rides anymore. I am trying to move on, but I don't want sex from other girls. I just want a relationship. The other girls just have sex to offer, this girl has class, and kindness. I enjoy her company very much.

How do I get over a girl when I don't want another girl?

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c'mon man lets not be like that..

remember that every time u point ur index finger at someone, the other three fingers point at yourself

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love that saying but yar magnum I would just have a good time spend some time with her having fun but spend time off chatting to other folks male and female whilst you are there. Other than that just DHV and things will fall into palce if they are meant to

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Yeah...it seems like you went afc on her and gave her total control.
That stuff about girls always wanting a good communicator blah blah, in my opinion its really BS unless you're far into a relationship and are having some problems, lol.

don't verbalize your feelings for someone.
show it.
give her a rest, for a good month or so, brush up on your game, game someone else, get back to her if you really want too...you probably will try to game her again in a month and just lose interest.

Fuck that. This guy dedicates his time to denouncing our guidance and advice.

He can get hit by a car for all I care.

it takes balls to straight up tell a girl, you you're more into than she is you, how much you like her.

It just sucks that it is very AFC.

When you get those overpowering lovey-dovey feelings and want to do something far out and romantic (but it's early in the relationship), that's what most AFC guys do. They blindly follow it, cuz it feels good.

Try to get out of your own head next time. There's plenty of time to woo over her AFTER you've totally won her.

Isn't it a catch-22 though how the girls who make you feel like that, are the ones you want, and are the one's you'll more likely fuck it up with because they make you feel like that

It's awful dude.

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Don't ever tell a girl how you feel about her, unless you are 100 % sure that she loves you back. Because if you tell her you love her, it will be awkward for her and she will be in control over you. You're not a hard catch anymore - you're just a guy that loves her and she does not have a challenge.

Not sure how you can fix this though, because I've never done this mistake. But I hope somebody else can answer that for you.

I'm thinking like the reason why I wanted her in the first place was because of the illusion of seperation I created in my mind. Maybe she isn't all that I thought she was.

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I think you have to learn to compose yourself first before anything will come your way.

GravesRR7 and Magnum45 are on the money IMO.

Epic post RR7!!