hey guys

I sarge alone often. And i open well. I can carry a conversation pretty well and with ease. I'm very funny, i gain women's trust well, fairly intelligent, kino playfully, and i create a fun vibe well.

I kno i usually get the girl Intrested i just can't escalate it to attraction and make her horny for me. sometimes i think my fun vibe backfires on me because i'm not serious enough to build tension. If i'm always making her laugh tension never really gets built up.

And sometimes i just won't try to escalate because i don't get the feeling she'll let me. I'm mean i'll be staring into her eyes while were talking but there would be no sexual tension. maybe i'm missing it because i'm really low on sexual exprience only kissed about 5 girls in my entire life Never gone past a kiss really.

Things i'm gonna do

- Cut my hair and groom myself well to look better
- practice more sexual kino
- triangular gazing i know about

What other aspects of escalation should i learn? And also can some one give me a clear example of push pull. Is a compliment coupled with a neg basically push pull? or as i'm kinoing do i just pull back for a while then when i start to kino again ramp it up to new levels.

I really want to start kissing girls too. Do i just go for it whenever i think there is enough attraction? Do i just act really sexual?

Any help would be appreciated.

Out of curiosity, can you describe your triangle gaze method to me?


Also, in terms of kino, my one biggest tip is start right off the bat- don't wait 20 minutes into the interaction to start kino- like greet her with a hug or if that's not your thing - start high fives right away.

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triangle gaze is where you look at one, then the other eye, then mouth and repeated. supposed to build anticipation for a kiss. Not that i'm banking on it though.

And i'm not shy with my kino. i usually kino pretty early. I'm sure to keep it playful and just hint at sexual but if things are going well im not afraid to put my hand on their back or hip for few.

This is the normal triangular gaze. This look expresses sympathy and (non-sexual) interest. Lingering your eyes on her lips is indeed a good way to build up toward kissing. There are also other triangles that you can make. To express sexual interest, lower the downward facing tip of the triangle toward the chest or even the crotch area. The lower, the more easily detectable the look and the more clear the intent. I use it often when seeing an attractive woman for the first time. When used like that, it will immediately state sexual interest and set the stage. What I generally avoid is the triangle that expresses antipathy. You take the normal triangle and flip it upside down, placing the top of the triangle slightly above the person's forehead. It might be useful in negotiations or something, but I wouldn't use it in social settings.

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.

thanks for clearing that up timo. I appreciate it.

Any other advice with turning girls on?

I'll take a list of threads i should read or a list of methods.

So c'mon guys i'm hungry for the information.

feed me!

You're the one that needs to make the conversation/moment sexual. That means, learning how to turn of the fun guy routine, and make yourself sexual. Of course, this should only be used momentarily. Create doubt in your victims mind. Even when you approach, you should be approaching with a false sense of security. You should always keep your fun guy personality, but don't over do it. Show that you can be a man.

But seriously. Just don't go overboard with any of it. Remain mysterious, powerful, alpha, and use common sense. Let nature do the rest.

^ sound advice. I'll definelty keep that in mind. I'm gonna make a shit ton of mistakes but i gotta try and learn.

Do i keep the turning on in short but heavily sexual bursts and back away and the let tension build? Or do i only back away a little but continuously tease with small sexual advances?

Blah i'm tired i hope that made sense.