So after heavy researching by watching videos reading articles, other experiences. Ive gathered the info I learned and put it into a method for myself. It goes as,

1. Before approach - eye contact and smile (not always needed)
2. Approach and build rapport/conversate, and compliment her.
3. Attempt to go on an instant date (If you and she can at the time)
On the instant date break the touch barrier (hugs, high fives, hold hands, arms around her)
After date invite her to your place to chill out some more. If she says no then get her number for another date.
4. If you didn't get the instant date then just get the phone number and leave with a hug or some touching.
5. Text her/ Call to set up a date (if she doesn't flake)
6. During date once again break touch barriers, and even try to kiss. And once again invite to your place
And if not set up another time to hang out.



I will be using this method for almost every girl whether cold approach, or girls I meet through mutual friends. What do you pros and noobs think about it?

It's basic but should be fine. The "touch barrier" concept is a little odd. Kino as a reward to her investment and match your kino to her amount of investment.

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Seconded. Re-invent yourself as a touchy-feeling guy

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I think you should change it a little, run an opener on her. Make it seem as though you are about to leave the scene, don't approach her directly and look for the instant date. You need to build that attraction first, giving her a compliment right away is like telling me that my dick is big, a thousand girls have told me that. Be the different guy and hit her with something that intrigues her and makes her turn to you. Once you're done with that you can say something as I guess I can have one drink. Now run your routine. Compliance, Compliance, COMPLIANCE. Build that, when looking at her use the triangle method. Look at her eye, then other eye, then lips, then back up. Show her that you are attracted to her. Then connect with her, get her into a sexual conversation and make it seem as though you know her. Once this compliance is complete and you can tell she is into you, try and hop venues with the instant date. Good luck

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I just approach, tell her she is attractive, tell her I have to be somewhere and that we should go for a drink sometime...

rinse and repeat

bulk text, most will flake, but chase up the good leads.

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It looks fine as a framework but as you will immediately find out and as I'm sure you already are aware, things run more fluid than the flowchart indicates.

As to the breaking of the touch barrier, that can happen instantly. If you're in a good social mood you can literally touch her within the first 5 seconds of the interaction, on the shoulder for example, whatever the case may be depending on your level of social calibration and her vibe etc.
Yes. Very good.

Also as best you can try to avoid interacting with the girl in such a way that you are trying to impress the girl or get something from the girl. Make some of the convos about you rather than fawning over the girl. She's cute. So what. There are billions of cute girls. Find out if she's a cool chick, worthy of chilling with you is a helpful mindframe to possess.

Give it a go, fall on your face, learn and don't give up!

seems like a good plan.
go for it OP
also emphasize on the 'us' mentality

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Kino right away no matter what!!!
If you don't touch her and you don't keep that = you are fucked up

Why instant dates? I can see that you are a beginner (because of your topic question) so keep it short, remember that good basketball players didn't score at first

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