I came up with quite a good idea today so please take the time to read through this as this first date kind of game I came up with I think is quite a cool idea to stop first dates being boring and give them that exciting edge to stop that first date being dull and making it somewhat rememberable.

Anyway since I wasn't getting much in the way of help from the people on here with a question I posted a day or so ago what-to-do-with-this-girl-saturday-night-vt55701.html which Im kind of glad about now coz it forced me to think a little outside the box. So I'm talking to HB7 today trying to figure out what to do with her tomorrow night and she says "Surprise me". I'm thinking fuck this is actually the first time I've ever been on a "date" and I don't really know what to do or how to approach this and I want it to be fun and interesting.

So I thought right I'm struggling to decide what to do with HB7 tomorrow and she's not being as helpful as I'd like so tonight I went out and got a bunch of envelopes and small pieces of card and I'm writing down on the card the ideas I've come up with for what we should do that night for example "For tonights activity you have chosen the Cinema", "For tonights activity you have chosen Dinner at italian restaurant", "For tonights activity you have chosen sex at your house", etc (first date not sure if this is a good idea but will keep it in anyway). Now on the back of each card I'm coming up with a dare to make the night more interesting for both of us an example of this is "Take a picture of yourself in your underwear in a public place at some point during the night". "Wear one ridiculous piece of clothing while we are having dinner" etc. We'll either both do it or flip a coin to see who has to do it. Once I've put the pieces of cards in there envelopes I'll draw a question mark on each one and let her choose one of however many envelopes there are and now she is both surprised and the night isn't just a boring first date it now has a twist to it.

Also if you have say 5 envelopes you can use an easy magic force to make her choose the activity/dare you want for the night. To do this lay the 5 envelopes in front of her, ask her to touch one if she touches the one you want you let her pick it up and reveal the activity/dare and go ahead with it. If its one that you dont want to do tell her "right we'll discard that one. Touch another" do this til you are left with the one that you want. Or just write 5 of the same thing put them in the envelopes and it doesn't matter what one she picks now and you can disregard the other envelopes without her knowing what the other choices were. I'm thinking if you've built enough rapport with the girl that she is receptive to the "Sex at your house" activity mixed with a sexy dare to do in the bedroom you can skip taking her out for dinner, movie etc.

I've not read this anywhere I just thought of it today while trying to think of ideas on where to take this girl. If this game is already in existance sorry for the plagiarism lol. If this is something original that no one has heard of before I'm trying to think of a name for it suggestions welcome. (I'll write a field report after I've tried it tomorrow night)

EDIT: I think I'm going to call the game "Dare to Date" or something along those lines

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That's an interesting concept. Props to you. I'm glad I didn't answer that first thread. Maybe the bets would be for me not to answer this one either ;)















Just kidding.

Alright. I like the concept, but I would tweek it a bit. I woudn't do "Italian restaurant" "movie" "sex"...

But rather the smaller more interesting things you've listed. " Take a picture in underwear in public", " Kiss a stranger", " Ring at a stranger's house" etc... anything you might of done in childhood with your buddies. You would of course have to go first if you want it to work IMO. Then it's her turn. You could argue a bit on making her go first and she'll most likely want you to go. Go in full blast and show you can be a fun guy.

I would also keep a second stack for more sexual oriented stuff in a second pile, at your appartment maybe? and go there if the vibe is good. And ya, I would try to sexualise the vibe during the date during the childish missions.

Cheers!

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Not sure, like his original idea better ha ha. Its funny.

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here are a couple of the dares i have thought of still thinking of more

"Wear any piece of clothing that your date gives you from the outfit they are wearing."

"Wear an embarrassing piece of clothing or item/prop while at the restaurant"

"For every door you walk through tonight you have to remove an item of clothing."

"Take a picture of yourself in your underwear in a public place at some point during the night"

"Think up an entertaining/embarassing nickname for the person your with and they have to introduce themselves to 5 strangers througout the night with that name."

We'll be out at night at 1 of 5 possible locations. The reason I'm happy with some of these kinds of dares is that she classed herself as a bit of a crazy girl so I'm trying to think up more outrageous ones that envolve us either working against each other or even together at some points to build rapport attraction and avoid any kind of boring moments. anytime the convo dies down I'll introduce a new dare for her to pick at random. Suggestions welcome. If I feel that the attraction is at a point where I can K/f close I'll try either cut out the game and progress from there or introduce a new dare that leads us there. Again suggestions welcome.

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viewtopic.php?p=298476#298476 Field report of the first date game I came up with. Its pretty long

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