So I've been talking with this girl for a while, and things never seem to work out (different schedules, living in different cities, personal stuff, etc.), and that is due to both sides. But finally our paths seem to be crossing so I asked her to come out with some friends, she said OK, let me confirm with you in a few days. She never responded, and I enjoyed my weekend anyways.

But I want to know, what do I do now? Do I contact her and act like nothing happened, do I bring it up and make light of it, or what? Or is this just a sign that I should just forget about it?

If she made plans and then flaked, I wouldn't hit her up, I would wait til she hit me up. I refuse to chase girls...the only girls I will continue to hit up if they flake r girls who r in my little circle of people n that's only because I know they aren't flaking n im not trying to fuck them as much as have a good time n surround myself with hot girls. This is a very small amount of girls who I happen to be "party friends" with. If I hit a girl up she says she wants to chill n never hits meback or doesn't respond, she's done (unless she's a 9-10, in which case she gets ONE more chance). So...if I were u I would sit back n do nothing. If she's into you she will hit u up, if not she wont. No big deal either way..go sarge, feel good about yourself, n brush her off...even peyton manning throws pics...its no problem buddy you will find 50 more better than her...gl n have fun.

Thanks, that what I was thinking too, but I might have to give her one more chance like you say.

Alright she kinda did flake on you but you never know maybe she just forgot to call you back or something. I advice you to call her, give her one more chance by organising a meet or even beta inviting her to your house nd if she's not interested then you can happily next her and focus on other girls. Just make sure shes not interested bcoz you dont want to lose a possible lay bcoz you assumed the worst instead of being a Man

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if you are going to bring it up i think you should neg her about it.
but in any case, you should keep it playfull.

Just wanted to post a quick update, and of course thank you guys for your advice...

So basically this girl finally came through and we have gone on three dates since (both of us are pretty busy so its been hard to meet up more). The last date was last night, and I was on a roll. We hit up a few bars, walked and talked a lot. She did open up a lot, which in my experience is a good thing. So I was feeling that I should go for a kiss at the end, but before I had a chance, she went in to hug me...and that was that. We agreed to watch a movie this weekend, so I didn't think much of it.

Anyways, since last night the texts have been different, and I'm just sensing she is not as excited about hanging out. I keep thinking I messed up big time, but if you were someone who was there and observing us, you would swear I was doing everything right.

So again, I come to you guys needing help....

a) What is going on?

b) And is tomorrow my last chance to make a move? Four dates with nothing to show for it probably means the time is up for me.

You've been on 3 dates and haven't kissed her could be what's wrong. Maybe she doesn't think you're interested? Move in for the kill man, life is short.

I just messed up and didn't kiss close again, 0/4 right now....I don't know what the hell I am doing at this point.

As a man who enjoys a good roll I need to know, is it a substance you have experience with?
MDMA is a fun drug, very fun, but you have to understand the tool to use it. It's primary effect is the dissolution of the ego, of the walls we throw up to separate ourselves from those around us. Everything from telling secrets about yourself to breaking it down on the dance floor seems like a fantastic idea so that you can lose yourself further to the crowd about you. On MDMA socialization IS crack. Take when you go out sarging and you'll find that you have no trouble keeping conversation alive, being fun, being energetic, basically being the life of a club. Take it with your best friend and you'll spend three hours of the peak telling your life story and finding a long lost sibling. MDMA enables you to overcome these fears but it doesn't eliminate them, as always the degree to which you open up is dependent on your comfort level, the MDMA just serves as a catalyst. In the case of this girl it sounds like you built tons of comfort but perhaps as a result neglected to maintain any elements of attraction. My advice, work in a little push, you've probably done plenty of pulling for now. Refrences: Some 20 personal experiences with Molly and it's dirty cousin X.

Sorry what? ahaha mate I think you completely misinterpreted his use of the words "on a roll." By this I'm sure he meant he was just making all the right moves and things were going well for him, not that he was actually on E Surely you're trolling?

Hahahahaha in all honesty a friend of mine and myself had experimented with it's application through June (MDMA that is). It's quite the tool, but that's for another post/thread. Unintentional trolling, I was b-b-b-baked when I read that and was pretty amused that someone had the same curiosity. Entirely misinterpretation. That makes far more sense in retrospect haha.