So, to make a long story short...

I met her one random day, everything went perfect, some other guy took her out, but I did a good job being unreachable, she was very interested that night, we did not kiss close cause she threw up a little... wasn't that drunk tho. However, after that party, she wrote me how she's happy to have met me, and she also said "thank you for singing in my presence" and all I sang was 10 second "drunk singing" (I am a singer tho).

She moved back to her how town, 100 kms away, so I can't continue my awesome work face to face Whenever we talk (mostly on facebook), she looks really interested, we flirt and stuff.... BUT... I always have to write her, damn! She rarely texts me! I hate facebook, I really do, I'd so much rather invite her out.

Main problem is, she looks interested, but on the other hand she acts like she doesn't give a f***! Pisses me off!

I know this is just her game, but I'm afraid if I keep texting her I ruin MY game and she'll lose interest. I've decided not to text her or anything for a while and it's been 3 days now... She just won't text. I also might mention that she got out of a 3 year relationship not long ago.

So the question is... where is the line? Should I keep my "hard to get game" and act like I don't give a f*** or should I keep contacting her? She will get back in my town someday tho, won't text forever.

Hope that's enough of information, I really made this story short.

Thanks for any tips

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Stay cool.

I say hold strong on your freeze-out dude. The more you keep initiating things the more she's going to think she's "got you". She's probably already starting to think "why hasn't he been in touch the past few days?" but if you throw her a nugget of interest then she'll be like "normal order has resumed, he's chasing me again". It's been 3 days you say, I say leave it another 3/4 days before contemplating your next move. Maybe then just shoot her a little push-pull text "You just popped into my head so Hi....now please stay out of there"

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"My toughest opponent is always myself"
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Yeah... I'm afraid I've already screwed up a bit, I've texted her a bit too much for my taste. Damn, she's good Other girls would just text me 162 texts a day.

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Stay cool.

Hey! i just read this and im pretty much in a similar situation

met a girl at a bar and we made out that night, texted her a couple of days later and eventually got a date with her (which i sort of ****ed up by being too boring and not involve things like kino) and then continued texting her the next day as well.

in saying this i've been initiating all the texting and such but im gonna just leave it and if she doesn't initiate i guess gotta just let go?

any comments on this?

This kind of stuff doesn't matter at all. Who cares what you say to her, not like it'll get you laid when she lives far away!

Next time you have a chance to see her, contact her, be excited, try to set a date up. Whether you message her once a week or not, her reaction will be the same. She likes you as a person, she'll want to see you when she can. Make it happen.