hey i cold approached a girl last weekend, we texted a bit she seemed into me, i invited her over and we had a few beers and watched tv etc etc but i was unable to close. not even a kiss close i walked her to the bus stop and that was it. she texted me after "thanks for a good night" and we might hang out soon I NEED ADVICE how can i turn this into a close? im relatively new to this so any advice helps...

what should i text her now?

I was watching The Pickup Artist; Season 2 the other night and got this. I tried it last night after Hunger Games date and it worked:


It's the "trust test":

1)put your hands out and tell her to look into you're eyes.
2)have her put her hands on top of yours.
3)move your hands down.
4)if she moves her hands with yours, according to Mystery, it's and IoI for physical contact.
5)if she complies look her in the eyes and smile, "how well do you kiss on a scale of 1-10
6)make some banter about her remark then something like, "we'll have to see.".
7)kiss her. Only for about 5 secs. Then say, "okay 6!".


This was Mystery's stuff, so it's good. only downside is it's kinda in a TV Show. So, you could get called out on it. I'm gonna keep using it, though.

Looks like you already missed your shot.

My go-to routine is, "You have something on your eyelid. I'll get it." Reach for her face She closes her eyes, stroke your hand across her face to behind her ear and kiss.

that seems a little shady im not sure i would wanna do that.

and i still have a chance she is interested and continues to text me unsolicited. we;re hanging out again next week i will escalate for sure this time

Nice one, Slip n Slide!

It amazes me how many people come in here asking for advice and turn GOOD stuff down.

Added to my aspiring PUA repertoire!

let me rephrase that, im sure in some situations thats a good move but i dont personally feel its applicable in this particular case. that being said I really appreciate the reply and the effort.

and that trust test i have done before and its a lot of fun

Slip N Slides post is gold! Im deffs gonna do that!

Did a k-close on a date last week that was kinda smooth but didn't actually plan it out lol. I'd done the ESP routine with the girl within like the first 30mins of the date (we'd already been talking about reading minds via text so I learned the routine because of this) she was begging me to tell her how I did it so I said I'd tell her later. An hour or 2 later and she brings it up again (I've been kino escalating etc during this time), I went close and whispered in her ear with a deep-slow voice "I'm not gonna tell you, I'm gonna kiss you instead", eye's lit up, beaming smile and she came flying at me at the speed of light.

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