Ok, I have another problem. This time its after a day 2 I had today which I thought went well but at the end of it, she implied that she doesnt want to see me again. Im abit lost on this one because in my view i did well, I kept the convo going all the time, no awkward silences and she was laughing alot of the time and i got some kino in there as well (we were having drinks in a pub and we were sitting opposite each other). Although I had been out clubbing last night and I have only had 4 hours sleep and I've been drinking all weekend, so im pretty wired. I thought I held myself together well during the day 2 but I could be horribly mistaken and be living in my own fantasy world.

As we were getting ready to leave I was preparing myself for the kiss close and i thought this whole thing was a done deal. So as we were saying goodbye I gave her a hug and went to kiss her and she actually gave me a little kiss on the lips and then i said something AFC like ''is that all i get?'' I always end up saying shit like that, can i get any suggestions on what to change that to? Anyway she made it clear that I wasnt really what she was looking for and then we parted ways (she said that she usually goes for guys abit older than me, im 21 shes 24). I was abit shocked with the whole thing cuz i thought it went well and I dont understand why she actually let me kiss her on the lips THEN say that im not what shes lookin for. Now can I continue to game her in any way or is it completely dead? I havent text her or anything yet, can I get any advice on wether its a good idea to text her and what to say?

Thanks

Rokkettzz

If you kiss her, and she pulls away a little, let it happen. Then, if she digs, you'll see her get a little excited - you should probably be making eye contact after a short kiss and reading her expressions. You lean forward again - assuming it was good.

A lot of time guys think girls are rejecting them, but you have to realize girls aren't always ready. Sometimes they need to process what you are doing.

Let her pull back, you pull back slightly more. Then you see her relax a little. You move 90/10. She should be thinking about it and hoping for it. Stay in control of yourself. Let her be more eager than you.

Oh, and that bologna about usually going for guys older doesn't mean anything without some context. See may have meant you're special because she usually doesn't do that. You can't think like she has the ability to accept or reject you. If you're the man - she's attracted to you. Little shit like that should always roll off.

First off, you should move on. In the best case scenario she texts you in a week wanting to hang out again. The other case is you keep chasing and she keeps running until she's forced to reject you even further by friendzoning you.

For day 2s with other girls, stop thinking about it being a kiss close and instead go for the kiss in the middle of the date. If you can't get the kiss then, you still have time to try again.

It's always a better idea to sit next to the girl for kino. Touching is a lot easier, and girls know this so some will purposely sit across from you. If you can't sit next to her, then footsie is your best tool. A better way to describe it would be "legsie." Place your calf against hers, push against her leg slightly and then pull back. Run the instep of your foot up the back of her calf, bring it back down to her ankle, and hook your foot around it to pull her leg forward. Snake your foot inbetween hers, and use it to push her legs apart. If she's enjoying the kino she will reciprocate, and do the same things to you. If it's really on, she will intertwine her legs with yours.

When doing the above, give occasional seductive glances. If she asks you "are you playing footsie with me?" give her a sly smile and don't respond verbally. The smile says "damn straight I am."

I've had a friend invite me out the bar, and he brought along a girl he was interested in. He had been after her for a while, and never got anywhere so I knew he was probably friendzoned. He sat next to her, and got himself sloppy drunk while unsuccessfully kinoing her. I sat across from them, and played legsie with her. When we stood up to leave, I immediately started on the kino with my hands. We were making out later in the back of the cab while my friend sat shotgun. I felt a little bad about doing this, but I figured there was no point in sitting there watching him fail while I get friendzoned too.

Can you tell me what her body language was like during the evening and even more so the kiss.

When you went in did she pull back and physically remove herself from you? If she did not then she wasn't saying no. You are doing the right thing by not texting let her think over the date and remember you.

Keep this girl on hold and game others. If it is meant to be she will return

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Can you tell me what her body language was like during the evening and even more so the kiss.

When you went in did she pull back and physically remove herself from you? If she did not then she wasn't saying no. You are doing the right thing by not texting let her think over the date and remember you.

Keep this girl on hold and game others. If it is meant to be she will return

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

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Thanks for the advice guys, i guess i should hold off texting her then. would there be anything I could say to her in a text next week or something? or is this completely dead unless she texts me first?

And I guess her body language wasnt great in the interaction, she was never leant forward and abit hesistant to give me her hands when i wanted them for kino purposes. but this is why im confused as to why she did give me a little kiss at the end. I mean surely if shes not into me then dont do it at all

Thanks

Rokkettzz

Was it on the lips or cheeks, I think you said lips, but could it have been she was going for cheeks but you turned your head?

Or she was trying to see if there was a "spark" maybe there was something about you she was attracted to but she wasnt entirely sure. A kiss tells a girl everything and if she felt it then she would have pursued more if not well then... she aint replying.

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-Raphael

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