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PostPosted: Mon Dec 09, 2013 2:09 am 
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Actually is normal. Girls don't initiate conversations and if you didn't maintain any contact then...
Just move forward to another girl remember that you are a PUA!


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 09, 2013 2:19 am 
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Actually is normal. Girls don't initiate conversations and if you didn't maintain any contact then...
Just move forward to another girl remember that you are a PUA!
So I was suppose to keep contact even though she rejected me? lol
I didn't want to be an orbiter... My plan is to drop her a line in few months anyway assuming I am single... Although I would be surprised if she didn't text me because she seemed genuine but maybe not...

And of course I am moving forward, takes me a while to meet a girl that gives me that "energy" though...


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 09, 2013 4:22 am 
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takes me a while to meet a girl that gives me that "energy" though...
You aren't approaching enough girls if that is the case. By the law of averages, the more girls you approach the better chance for you to meet several that give you that energy.

Could still text this girl about whatever cool stuff you're up to without coming off as an orbiter. You never know when you might happen to catch her on a night she's had a couple of drinks and is alone & horny.... HOWEVER, much better to forget her and just meet more girls.

In the future if a 3rd wheel is about to join up with you and a girl you haven't had sex with yet, leave the venue with your date or bail on the date ASAP for any reason. I'm sure you already figured this out based on what happened that night. Recipe for disaster.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2013 2:09 am 
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takes me a while to meet a girl that gives me that "energy" though...
You aren't approaching enough girls if that is the case. By the law of averages, the more girls you approach the better chance for you to meet several that give you that energy.

Could still text this girl about whatever cool stuff you're up to without coming off as an orbiter. You never know when you might happen to catch her on a night she's had a couple of drinks and is alone & horny.... HOWEVER, much better to forget her and just meet more girls.

In the future if a 3rd wheel is about to join up with you and a girl you haven't had sex with yet, leave the venue with your date or bail on the date ASAP for any reason. I'm sure you already figured this out based on what happened that night. Recipe for disaster.
Yeah that or I am just little too picky or still too focused on the last girl... Although one of the girl's in my new rotation is catching my eye, so maybe I am not doing so bad...

Yeah I guess I can keep light contact but I don't think it'll do any good... She is too much of a "good girl"/innocent type... I believe what this girl said because after our first date she posted about it on her twitter, then days later she posted how she wasn't over her ex... The girl got her heartbroken pretty bad it seems so I believe she was being genuine.. Plus on both dates she kinda hinted that she was hurt and when something came up related to her ex she was like straight up she doesn't want to talk about it... But if she did like me enough she wouldn't have cut me off so I know I made my mistake(s) (or at least her friend helped her with that)... I think I came off a little too strong and she could tell I liked her so maybe that scared her off? I think I did a good job of not chasing her so maybe that'll fall into my favor... And this girl had a decent amount of interest, I mean she mentioned me to her mom and her mom's bf after just 1 date and it seemed like her friend knew enough about me... Which kinda confirms what she said about me being the first guy she dated/talked to since she was single...

I wish I could get back with this girl before someone else tries to snatch her, but I feel like the ball is on her court since she "isn't ready"


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2013 4:00 am 
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If you keep no contact nothing will happen. Keeping light contact something may or may not happen. I think you did pretty much everything right. I agree that you did a good job of not chasing. The only twist in the road was the friend showing up.


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One other note; Girls are always ready to get down. Rebound sex and all that. However yeah she is probably still in the recovery from the last relationship letting it slide for a bit while you meet other girls as you said is probably a good call.


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If you keep no contact nothing will happen. Keeping light contact something may or may not happen. I think you did pretty much everything right. I agree that you did a good job of not chasing. The only twist in the road was the friend showing up.
Yeah, why is that? Doesn't look like she is ever gonna drop me a line. Been almost 2 months and heard nothing... I don't think she has dated anyone since me tho... Seems like girls have way too much pride to reach out if it was only a short term dating thing... I'm gonna hold out on contacting her for a bit longer though, but if I do make contact, what should be my mindset? Usually I just build comfort and once the comfort is there I just set dates.. This situation is weird because she basically rejected/dumped me and feels like I'm just a lame if I reach out...
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One other note; Girls are always ready to get down. Rebound sex and all that. However yeah she is probably still in the recovery from the last relationship letting it slide for a bit while you meet other girls as you said is probably a good call.
This girl was weird... She was way too NICE and it threw me off, probably gave me the wrong vibe... Like usually I can drop some texts to get them thinking of sex but this girl seems to take them the wrong way... She hates most guys and thinks their creepy and douche bags, pretty much her words... So I just kept it playful with mild flirting... And when we met up (first date nothing really happened) but she showed A LOT of interest after that date and started texting me way more and kinda admitted she was gonna miss me because I was away for a month for work... Second date seemed to go well (aside from her friend) because I at least made moves but then she suddenly loses interest? Clearly some shit from that night either turned her off or brought up some bad feelings about her ex...

And I know girls are down for the rebound sex and all that but I don't think I'm at that stage with this chick, she wouldn't go for it...


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