Im posting this cause ive been experiencing difficulty with sets on the dance floor, approaching on the dance floor without getting denied, and aspects basically pertaining to this approach. Hopefully we can put some ideas together here or any success that we've experienced.

Thanks

i have the same problem too. i've personally noticed that when u arrive at a club a bit earlier then majority of ppl. then u have bigger variety of different girls to approach and dance. i've also seen that girls go for the guys that are really into the dancing... like they go in active and dont care if they dance with a girl or by them selves.
but i guess it also depends sometimes on what type of HB the girl is that u want to dance with.

Im always out on the dance floor weekends my secret is don't arrive to early and dont leave too late, when you walk in have a big smile on your face, put into your mind that you are the prize not some blond girl ok.
Dancing approach is easier than actually talking to them, If you live in a area were dance clubs are common take some salsa lessons, girls love guys who can dance well. And all you have to do is appraoch from and agnle never straight on have a grin on your face and either do the come here gesture with your finger (whilst your already on the dancefloor) or just go up to them and ask if they want to dance If its a club the girl will be already a bit drunk if not completely so chances are she will not say no.

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the clubs/bars in my area are all mostly "grinding" type of dancing... the boring stuff, i find. but here in canada its like the girls are over protective. when they come with there friends its difficult to get them to dance because usually there friends will pull them away from us =/
its fricken stupid...

you either need to talk to her friends and get them to like you or get a wing to contain the obstacles. It also depends what kind of clubs you go to. All ages tend to suck imo, I like 19+ and I get more success there but maybe its cause there's more girls I like rather then dumb drunk 16 year olds lol I really hate very loud clubs though. Can't really practice my game and it probably damages my ears lol

yeah man its been tryed. the girls just ignore and dance with eachother.., i go to the 18+ clubs in alberta. we found this decent club and end up having better luck there dancing with older girls.
then again when we try to talk we can open but our mid game is low...

I have somewhat success when it comes to dancing at clubs.

First of all don't be one of those creeps who stands in the middle of the dance floor looking for girls also don't stand in the corner nodding your head to the beat.

I find just to stay relaxed just dance the way you feel is right. Also don't have any expectations, don't try to dance thinking to impress others just pretend your having a good time.

For me I just get right into it I'll dance in the middle by myself with a smile on my face and just get right into it, I dont care what people think. It feels weird when you just start dancing for the night but once you get going time flies. I have had girls come up to me and tell me that I am a good dancer and that they would follow my lead. I am NOT a good dancer, I have had girls come up to me and just start grinding me from the front. Just looking confident and having fun is the key ingredients to have a good time on the dancefloor

Dance clubs are my favorite, there are 3 outcomes after the approach...

1) Shes flat out says no...so what...keep it moving

2) She hesitates because shes with her friends, so you need to do some talking

3) Says yes, easy as pie

Heres my approach in a nutshell

1)Walk in at an angle to her left shoulder
2)Place your right hand around her back onto her right hip
3)Say some variation of "hey you want to dance"/ "hey are you girls dancing"/"Hey lets dance"...with a sleek smile and a slight raise of the eyebrow

Always follow the 3 second rule, dont linger around her because they have senses for creepers, when you see her go in and dont give yourself a chance to think about getting rejected.

This works for me because I literally come out of nowhere, signifying that I wasnt lingering around them, so I was confident enough to approach right when I saw them. Then by me placing my hand on her hip or on the small of her back, it shows that I am comfortable with body contact from the get go because grinding is 100% body contact, so you have to be comfortable, loose (not stiff), and vary your hand location when you dance, grab her hand(s), her leg, hip, go handless ect...After she knows you are confident in your approach, comfortable with touch, project your voice so she can hear you, then smile so you are non threatening, my eyebrow raise is just a personal touch.

At some point during the grinding, you are going to have to speak, or shes going to get bored and leave you, this I am still working on, getting better at is, but not going to offer advice I am not completely comfortable with.

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those three steps sound like a good idea that ill need to try!
thanx
and if anybody could help me out with another thing. usually if i do get that dance with an HB then i find myself unsure of what to say. i dont know what kind of convos to start while dancing, i usually end up doing the stupid interview stuff =/
if anyone has advice plz share thanx.