| I'm try to draw this for you... If you understand it, you will nail this type of situations.
A: SHE, going her way
B: YOU, going your way
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> (A)
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< (B)
So far, so good?
Great, now you stop and turn around, not completely, but in 90 degree angle, and yell "HEY!" (The purpose of the "Hey!" is just to get her to notice you), make sure she stops, in most of cases she won't turn around completely, but just like you she will probably turn only 90 degree angle,,, in either way you say "Can I tell you something?", with a more passive voice.
So far, so good?
Now, you got her attention, she says "Yeah", now, you walk up to her with some cocky and funny attitude. (Learn a cocky & funny walk)
So again.
A: SHE
B: YOU
C: POINT OF INTERSECTION
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> (A)
>
>>> > (C) <<<<
>
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< (B)
This is how it should look, keep a distance from her at first, lets say about 2 to 3 steps, and then say, with again a cocky & funny tone, "If you're gonna be looking at me like that, you may as well talk to me". She will crack up, you take it from there, obviously don't forget to get closer as you talk more.
I usually say:
"Look, I gotta go already, pleasure to meet you"
She says "Nice to meet you too"
Ask her for her email, and then phone number. Use DD's email & phone number technique. If you don't know it, let me know.
Or you could also try some banter, and roleplay,
and then hang out right there in the moment, saying
"Why don't we go grab something to eat"
Hope it helps
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