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I have been living the game you talk about all my life and didn't understand what you said. Actually I had a look on this forum and saw these words:
DHV? Cold Read? Neg?
You guys make getting girls as rocket science. Learn to WANT girls and not need them. Too much thinking means subtle form of girl ass kissing.
What kind of language is this!
Pimpin'Scout
I don't think anyone is making it a rocket science. It is an art as such. The terminology he is using is typical in the PUA community and alot of it comes from the book that probably got most of the people interested in PUA and that is "The Game"
There is not one solid approach that is going to work for any girl. So don't be taking everything as gospel when people are giving you advice. But I agree with alot of what people are telling you....
By your post you don't feel worthy.... I think we all have/ or still do at times get this from time to time depending on your level. DO NOT APPROACH HER IF YOU DO NOT FEEL WORTHY!!!
Needy is probably the most unattractive thing for a woman. You mention her friends are all the athletic type, good shape, fashion sense and that you are different. This could work in your favour. I mean she probably has been about this type of guy most of her teenage years and wants something different.
And if she doesnt it still does not rule you out. You can still make her attracted to you regardless. The main thing I think here is to be confident in you. Once you master that then approach and do not take it as a life or death situation.
Some people said hang around 10's etc or even just approach them with and chat to them for no reason other than to get familiar round them. Don't rush but don't take your time either... She could be fucking the locker room by next week.