Your help is really needed here. I am not very experienced with women because I was in a 3-1/2 year relationship that ended a couple months ago. I have a huge crush on a girl in one of my college classes. It's not just her looks that I like, but it's the entire package. Monday is the last day of the semester and I need to find out a way to talk to her and set something up.

I can't tell if she likes me or not, and I haven't been very good at sending her signals either. I am pretty shy, but I need to tell her what I think about her somehow. Telling a girl that I like her (never have done that--previously, I found out that the girls liked me) will help my confidence for the future.

A little about me: 20 years old, confident, athletic, tall, full scholarship to a prestigious university, nice car, live in a nice place, etc.

Thanks for the help guys. I need it.

Best advice i can give? You don't tell at all. Ask her out on a date, touch her arm, use the claw over her shoulder when being 1 on 1 with her. That already shows that u have interest in her. Just call her (and don't wait too long) and say: hey what are your plans this weekend? Let's go to (location).

Second of all. IF YOU DON"T TELL: they will always have to guess. Does he like me? Does he want to kiss me? Does he want to see me after this date? THings like that make her crazy, and that's a good thing. Because then she needs to date you more and more to find out. Being a little bit mysterious is ok.

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