Hi ! In a few days the winter holiday will end and the school will start .
I need some advice about picking up girls at high school can someone give me some examples of openners , negs dhvs , etc ?
please ! i really want to improve my skills

im still in high school too man (senior) and what ive found to work the best is the opener ; "excuse me , can i get your opinion on somthing?" this works best because high school girls love to talk and give there input.

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ok thanks man , but , i'm still a beginner in this game , and i'm kind of shy guy ... after openner what should i say ? and i have to say i didn't approached any girl . So i have no experience.

ask for her opinion on somthing ( like your hair or somthing, tell her you want to change it up a bit but dont know how to go about it) okay now this is where shell start rambling on giving you her opinion, ( while shes talking it buys you some time to think, but while your think make sure to absorb a few things she says) take one of the things she told you ( like a way to fix your hair) and turn it into say..a cocky funny routine, say; " i dont think that would go good on me, are you sure you know what rour talking about" ' serious at first then with a slight smile at the end, okay heres where everything starts getting good... there are two options at this point

A) continue your light negging and cocky funny bit
or
B) you can start kino

if you dont think shes attracted to you enough yet repeat step A or another routine period, and then start kino.

this is where youll wana start finding subtle ways of making contact with her( like noticing her ear rings and brushing her hair behind her ear to get a better view of them, and as you pull your hand away lightly caress her cheek and smile at her)

after a few min of kino, ask her what shes doing after school, tell her youd like to take her to see a movie and hangout later

#close and (if you think you can kiss close)

good luck man

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-GHOST

Don't. Don't excuse/apologize for your presence. And just ask. Don't ask to ask, just ask.

Steven211, there where you will sarge will be alot of AMOGS in sets. We both know why =).
You want to open them first, and then talk to the girls.

That's why he's negging her And using cocky funny...he's not potraying the good guy just being polite....would you rather he yelled "aye yo bitch, cum here", there's no reason why that can't say excuse me...I do it it all the time and pull it off easily

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-GHOST

The middle of the school year isn't really the ideal time to get better, but whatever. The main strategy you want to do is to expand your social circle. Talk to any and all girls. You don't even have to run game on all of them, become friends to some of them and just hang out. This creates alot of social proof especially if the chick is attractive.
The biggest mistake guys make is seeing female friends as a bad thing. But by constantly being around chicks you can practice routines, get better and gain access to their attractive friends

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

When you say that, you create an image in her mind (that's the first or second thing she knows about you, apart from your looks). An image of a rather nervous guy trying not to mess it up. I never say that and i've never lost a set for it.
Look, I'm not saying that if you say excuse me you'll get blown out every time. I'm saying that without it, it will go better.



*edited typos

Look, to be 100% honest, what matters the most is how you carry your self, and use what works best for you.

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-GHOST

I fully agree with that.

Gaming in school is the EASIEST way to meet girls when you're young. For your sake I hope you make the most of it!

Okay, Flirting with your high school sweet hearts is a lot easier than talking to some random chick at the street.

I wouldn't neg unless I she's being like high status than me or bitchy or stuff. If you wanna improve your personality. Why don't you try reading the book How to become an Alpha Male by John Alexander or Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlox Xuma (My favorite) or the 24 traits of an Alpha Male by Steve Scott, helps beginners.

Okay, one of the best thing about the high school chicks is that they all got a facebook address. If you have trouble closing with the number close, Just ask for their email address, it's easy to get. And try the David D's technique too.

You - Hey, I gotta go see my friends now. Thanks for the feedback or opinion or whatever.
Girl - Okay, you're welcome..
You take a step and then turn back and ask
You - Hey, you got an email ID. You sound like you know a lot about X and I'd like to know more.
Give her a pen and a paper.
You - Write your name and Email ID
while She's writing.
You - Write your cell phone number too.

That's the David DeAngelo's technique and it's works most of the time. But if it doesn't work, you just gotta build the more rapport with her.

Hey, a few important things.

Do NOT try to dominate your friends.
Do NOT tease your friend in an offensive way in front of the chicks.

Love your friends, be the guy who stands up for the all the time. And they will look up to you as their leader. And learn a few body language.

Be trendy. Wear a hairstyle like you just had sex. Messy looks are good. Faux Hawk is good. Don't do the extreme version, alright. And spikes are good. Keep yourself clean and your stuffs clean. Wear a good cologne(Obsession is good.)

Sign up for sports clubs, get into some team. Learn to play instruments. If you're popular in school. The less effort you need to do the #close 'cause they'll be so proud of themselves that YOU, Mr. POPULAR at school talked to them.

I'm not saying much 'cause those books will cover most parts you need to know. You can read them on Scribd.com for free.

One more thing. SMILE....

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Impossible is Nothing!

There hasn't been much good advice in this thread until this poster. I'm a senior in high school as well, I had to turn my social life around halfway through high school.

It's not easy to come into established friendships. If you aren't friends with someone, and especially if you're not already a really social person, they may wonder why you're trying to be friends with them all of a sudden. Keep trying and don't give up.

Positivity helps immensely. If people know they can always smile after talking to you, they'll want to talk to you a lot more. Show them that you like them, be upbeat and give off vibrant energy. This will always make you friends.

DON'T try to open girls with some routine opener. DON'T try to pull PUA tricks like negging. DON'T try any routines at all, actually.

What's ghostman doing telling you to try to kiss close? With a girl you don't know in the middle of high school??? You'd be a social outcast dude. This isn't a nightclub, it's a school.

Physical contact IS important. Every time you talk to a girl, try to touch her in some way. It may be awkward at first, but keep going. It'll become normal that you touch her, and that's a great thing.

Just focus on being a well-rounded, positive person. Work on your social skills as much as you can. Keep a record of your successes and failures, and improve on yourself. High school can introduce you to girls on its own, just by joining clubs and taking classes and participating.

I know this wont help but someone said where obsession as cologne. I dont actually know how that smells and/or price, but personally I used Curve by claiborne all of high school and now. I constantly have girls smelling me, I was with a girl last night and after I left she sent me a text you smell so good you always smell amazing.

So cuve claiborne or polo double black are my juice

As for style tight clothing dark jeans stylish not those crappy light construction worker styles.

Vnecks - sweaters/hoodies.

I always had the fresh look I wore collar shirts to school, I even wore gfs clothing just because I was ballsy as fuck. I would get sent to principle all the time and didnt give a flying fuck. I came into school with a zipper sweater and PJs all the time. So just be confident and boss?

But generally for clothing... Tight Jeans, Vnecks, Sweaters, Jackets, socks -its a must!
except for sandals no no and occasionally collar shirts to show u are boss. I even came to class in a suit and teachers and students commented on it. They were like u dress like shit then one day come like this wdf? (that was the teachers) you smell so good, and I love the tie (kids) seriously I smelled good hahaha

As for tips on getting HS kids just have fun and talk to everyone. You can be the nerdiest kid but if you talk to everyone and get in all social circles you will be set. Its all about getting connections. HS is like business you just need networking

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

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i never said to kiss close i said number close (and if you think you can kiss close.)

dont quote someone wrong...get your shit straight.

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-GHOST