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I know adam lyons talks about dancefloor game, but Im free to answer any questions you may have about dancefloor game, how to open verbally/nonverbally.. EC, Kino-plow, and escalte is what Im good at.

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Hey, here's one. Lately I've been getting back into the club thing after a LONG (years) layoff. Back in the day, I used to be able to pick out a spot on the dance floor and start dancing, and then I'd either be approached or get some nice obvious signals from a girl to let me know to approach. That's not happening nearly as often anymore (I'm older and can't dance like I could back then). Because of that, I normally have to approach completely blind, and this leads to a really lousy rejection rate. As a result, I usually stick to trying to pick up off the dance floor, but that's not easy when the girl is camped out on the dance floor for the night. So anyhow, can you offer the best tips for getting her attention or setting up EC before the approach? I've got a good but mature style, so peacocking is not really an option - I'd be looking more for things around attitude, behavior, etc.


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First off, look at the logistics of the situation before you dive in.. how tight is theyre circle? Are they looking around hairflicking trying to get some attention? One thing that has been working well for me lately, is when you see a girl you like brush your shoulder against hers and booty bump, most women usually comply with the buttbump and do it back.. thats a nonverbal opener.

Most of all, I want to tell you if you can dance like you used to then you might want to find a few simple moves, that even you can do.

1. A move just for yourself if you feel like dancing, like a side to side 2 step..

2. Playful moves to grab attention like, the sprinkler, the lawnmower, the running man..etc. Even Booty dancing will grab any girls attention, I have a arsenal of moves to use for specific songs!

3. Moves that when you get the girl, you can kino-plow.. this is important because when u dance with her, be alert of her eye contact, and if she grabs your hand and places it somewhere on her body. I think Adam Lyons has a video, where he does this exact thing. Twirl her, and dipping her are also flipping the attraction switch because not alot of dudes are dipping.

Be aware of the proximity that you recieve when your dancing with a girl also, but most of that takes in-field experience!

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Im a dance game teacher and agree that you need to be busting some cool and unusual moves that people never see on the dance floor. A great way to get girls is to just do your dancing and let them come to you, i get this all the time. Ive got my own tern which is to Dance close. this means getting a girl to dance with you and kino. You then need to work on the k or n close.

Im doing a workshop in london on this and have written a 4000 word document on the subject if anyone needs any more advice or training.


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I got your PM I only teach my friends never really thought it was a big marketable thing. 4000 words wow dude... id love to fly to london if it was within my budget

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Alright. I got a little predicament that I need a little help with. There's this club where I live that is basically one big dance floor. Theres a really tiny bar and like 3 places to sit which are normally already filled by people. So I have two options: Open on the dance floor or chode face in the corner. I choose 1. Problem is I look like a fool when I dance and you can't really open with an opinion opener or something on the dance floor cause they're busy and could care less if David Bowie is hot or not. So basic summary is: I can't dance, there's nowhere to really "talk" to people, I need an opener, and how to escalate with nowhere to go. and I'm 19 so the shittiest of the shit clubs is really all I got.


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Alright. I got a little predicament that I need a little help with. There's this club where I live that is basically one big dance floor. Theres a really tiny bar and like 3 places to sit which are normally already filled by people. So I have two options: Open on the dance floor or chode face in the corner. I choose 1. Problem is I look like a fool when I dance and you can't really open with an opinion opener or something on the dance floor cause they're busy and could care less if David Bowie is hot or not. So basic summary is: I can't dance, there's nowhere to really "talk" to people, I need an opener, and how to escalate with nowhere to go. and I'm 19 so the shittiest of the shit clubs is really all I got.
Sounds like what you could really use is a better environment to pick-up in. These guys may be able to help you improve your dance game, but if it were me, I'd look for other venues, something that worked to my natural strengths. Find an environment where you can display the best side of yourself.

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You need to either go to dance classes or watch videos which teach you how to dance , lots of these are on the internet.

Just learn some basic moves like sliding. Street dance is the best for getting the girls.


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Alright. I got a little predicament that I need a little help with. There's this club where I live that is basically one big dance floor. Theres a really tiny bar and like 3 places to sit which are normally already filled by people. So I have two options: Open on the dance floor or chode face in the corner. I choose 1. Problem is I look like a fool when I dance and you can't really open with an opinion opener or something on the dance floor cause they're busy and could care less if David Bowie is hot or not. So basic summary is: I can't dance, there's nowhere to really "talk" to people, I need an opener, and how to escalate with nowhere to go. and I'm 19 so the shittiest of the shit clubs is really all I got.

The same element that I have a problem with, but they are many ways to get pass this. I have a club I go to with the same dynamic, big dancefloor and little places to sit besides upstairs. You cant opinion open on the dancefloor, even if you cant dance you can go into sets looking foolish but if you energy level is right then anything is possible.

Most of the time, I open UG sets on the dancefloor, I get preselction and proximity. You can dance with the big girls and make it look like your just having a ball, the main point is, your not on the dancefloor hovering, with you drink just looking around aimlessly. When you open a set, I tap the girl on the shoulder.. he and her friends will look at me, and I just do something that no other guys are doing. Offer one of the obstacles my hand and twirl them around, and have fun with them.

Does this answer your question buddy?

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Alright. I got a little predicament that I need a little help with. There's this club where I live that is basically one big dance floor. Theres a really tiny bar and like 3 places to sit which are normally already filled by people. So I have two options: Open on the dance floor or chode face in the corner. I choose 1. Problem is I look like a fool when I dance and you can't really open with an opinion opener or something on the dance floor cause they're busy and could care less if David Bowie is hot or not. So basic summary is: I can't dance, there's nowhere to really "talk" to people, I need an opener, and how to escalate with nowhere to go. and I'm 19 so the shittiest of the shit clubs is really all I got.
Im writing a method specificly for the dancefloor, cause its my strenght. I know a lot of efficient ways to get girls there, and you dont need to be a good dancer. I will give you one technique I use. If you are with your wing, go and step in front of 2 girls that are dancing, and dont let them see each other. Then after a few seconds, say: "your friend is already dancing with my friend", (your wing must say the same thing to the other girl). So they believe you and there you are, dancing with an HB.

The problem now is that if you dont know how to dance, you need to read my method. And its too long for posting here and its in spanish cause im from Chile, well if you are interested, pm me. BYE BYE


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Yeah ok. I figured I'd have to learn some little dances anyways so might as well. thx for the advice guys. I'll try the ug theory too.

But also, i read this.... somewhere. Maybe in another thread? I forgot. anyways, I heard a little hip check is a good non verbal opener on the dance floor, if you do it right of course. but then of course that entails dancing afterwards so i'm still fucked. Will work on it though. Anyone ever tried this?


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Hip check is always good, if reciprocated.. conveys that your fun. I usually make strong EC first

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Hi All, Im totally new to "The GAME" stuff. Im a pretty good dancer (trying to learn basic breakdance steps - toprock). My porblem is the 'classic' one...too chicken to approach a girl even if I get some positive signals from them...I know this issue has been addressed like million times before... just wanted to say Hi...its my first post here....will try and approach girls tonight at Lizard Lounge, Dallas, lets see how it goes..... :P


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Heres a link from my dance game workshop in London

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=mbxS44mYbU0

I agree you nee dto be doing some cool moves no other guys are doing to get girls to come over to you.


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I've not fully studied Mystery Method stuff, but his theory that the dancefloor being a trap to be avoided is something I'm starting to agree with. I think it's too difficult to gauge what a HB's deal is and the chance to build attraction and comfort is very rarely apparent. Fair play if you're good at it, but I reckon beginners are better off at regular bars.


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