I met a HB8 working in a jewelery store. My opener was that I needed to find a necklace. Initially, she's very cold/uninterested. I maintain good eye contact, neg her on her attempts to find what I'm looking for---e.g. "you and I have very different opinions of what a crescent looks like", speak in statements demonstrating command, have good body posture, and soon I feel she's attracted to me. Come to think of it, I kind of felt this occur after I maintained about 10 to 15 seconds of direct eye contact in delivering my opener about needing a necklace for a friend.


It's confirmed when she stumbles over her words, using "like" and "um" a lot, keeps her eyes lowered with the pretense of looking intently for a necklace (but come on, she doesn't even come up for air), and basically gives me not so subtle IOIs. I'm 90% certain shes shy or supplicating, the other 10% says she's just a very dedicated employee.

Problem: I was not sure where to go with it. She's behind the counter, which limits kino. In fact, I'd have to almost superman over to kino her. I'm running through my head for a good DHV of some sort and nothing comes to mind. So we kept fluffing about the necklace I was never going to buy.

Argh...eventually, I eject gracefully with a FTC after she goes through everything and does not find what I'm looking for. Actually, I say "no, nothing? Eh...alright then, thanks for helping me (insert HB name, on employee name tag)".

Need analysis. Big things, little things. E.g. Should I have said her name from the name tag? She did not give it personally. Should I have tried to kino her regardless of the physical separation? What should I have done for building attraction and comfort? How do I transition smoothly from the necklace opener?

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OOO man i love when they have name tags on i use their name all the time . . like go up and open with like "Hellooooo Tina i need your help on finding the perfect necklace . . do you have good taste because my friend does so i need this to be special" i love using names like that plus it makes it more personal like you two already know each other

idk its rough to game people at work but maybe what u can try next time if u cant kino is start to go into something like asking them what they like in the necklace . . . blah blah blah blah throw some C&F because i am all about the C&F

good luck

for kino
u couldv had her try stuff on
like a bracelet (even tho u wanted a necklace)
and when she puts it on u hold her wrist/hand to inspect it up close

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Thanks guys, I may go back today or tomorrow, any ideas on the follow up?

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yeah when u go back go in with a joking tone and tease her...when u see first thing u say is "miss me?" in a cocky funny attitude.

then have her search for something else u need. since she works in a jewelry store im guessing she wears rings, so halfway through the search ask her "do you always wear your rings on that finger?" she says yes or no or whatever, then go into the Ring Finger routine....you can find it using the search bar. its not called the ring finger routine, but just try to google Style's ring routine.

basically its a way to establish kino. you go into a routine explaining hwo youre friend whose a girl is one of those superstitious girls and she was telling you how what finger a person wear their rings says alot about their personality.

When you search for the routine it'll tell u what each finger represents, so just be holding her hand when you're explaining to her what each represents.


good luck bro

"Oh no! not you again (c/f smile)! You weren't able to help me last time. You know what, im thinkin bracelets now tho...
"Ok you weren't much help... so what do you do when you're not selling jewelry and flirting with customers."
Her: "what/why?"
You: " well if im going to let you hang out with me outside of this store i need to know more about you. I'm a man of substance, you need more than just a pretty face."

cheers

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Sweet sweet awesome guys, I'll try it out next time I see her.

Although, last time I had her search around for a necklace with a shape I knew was rare. Should I make something up similar again? And why am I dropping by again, given that she's so lousy at customer service? Reasons, reasons!

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