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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:26 am 
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There was this great quote I read from this book. "Over the course of my life, I have learned to come up to a woman and ask them if they want to fuck. I got slapped a lot. But of course, I got fucked a lot too"

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I get u Zepter. I'm actually going in to this. I'm a really quick learner and I think I might be able to mix all the theory behind the game with my own personality type and personal preferences. I think it's interesting for sure and it might, I think it will be my only chance of having the sex life every man dreams of. I think I do deserve it and I think it's about time. I'm again 25, and here comes the new master pickup artist. I will stay on this forum and I'm going to buy a couple of books. I'm actually really curious how this will turn out for me. Thanks guys also I have quick question before I'm going to ask about the list of books I need to read. I live in Germany but I'm dutch, and I can't speak really good German. I would like to have game on the German girls around here, this probably isn't that much of a problem but how would we go about this as pickup artist?

Also any recommendations for the books I need to read? I'm thinking of buying the Game..


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Or any other variation..

I am a very shy guy when it comes to talking to new people and my social skills and confidence are lacking. I just have lot op difficulties chitchat-talking. I also have a problem with talking a girl into bed, I'm a very direct person.
ok, so you find you are a bit reactive and have trouble communicating pro-actively, you say you are very direct, but you have a problem directly communicating
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I can't really lie or anything, or say all kinds of stuff while the underlying goal stays that I want to have sex with the girl. If anyone has seen "A Beautiful Mind'? The bar scene? Yeah I'm kinda like that guy though I don't have the nerve (yet) to actually go up to that beautiful lady. Nash did get slapped but if it could in fact work I think it would be my favourite approach..
well, you can most certainly approach in a sexually direct manner, but it really limits the frame, first of all, it is a very sexual frame to adopt and secondly, it adds a time constraint on the girl putting more pressure on her to make a choice immidiately, yes it can and will work with enough approaches, but it will screen out a large amount of girls and only attract those that are receptive to the offer
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My main goal would be to have the confidence to go up to a girl I want to have sex with and just tell her the truth, very direct but honest: "Do you want to have sex with me some time" (or anything along those lines)
Is this an acceptable approach in the Pickup-scene? Does anyone ever use this? What are the experiences with that? How do most women respond? Is your physical attractiveness as a man a deciding factor?
accomplish your goal then, what does it matter if this is acceptable in the pua sense?, if this is what you want, go do it

my personal experience with an outright soi straight to sex in a take it or leave it fashion has only be experienced vicariously through my best friend and wing, he tried the appocolypse opener one time, and it worked, but the fact that the girl was checking him out before hand and the fact that he is seriously better looking then any other guy I know probably did well to help his cause

how do most women respond?, I would imagine that would be dependant on you and how everything is presented to them, as well as what mood they are in, and how the act around people they don't know, each guy would probably have a very subjective experience with this question

does your physical attractiveness come into play?, obviously, everything comes into play, the more you have going for you in a positive manner, the better
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Can I pull this off? I heard there's on average of 1 in 10 chance the lady sais yes. I tried to find as much info on this subject as possible but I found very little. I think it's one of the more interesting approaches and I hope this topic can be a great source of information in the future for me and other folks.
can you pull this off? that is only something you can answer, can you deliver the line you want to deliver?

1 in 10 chance the lady says yes, this is completely false, it will be subjective from guy to guy, and there are alot more factors that will determine success rate here then a simply universal number, how much status you project as well as the culture and what women you are making this proposition towards all will effect the success rate of doing this sort of thing, if a girl gets the sense that this is some needy ploy (which judging by your post this is) it probably won't go over at all with any of them, a big problem with this kind of thing is girls don't want to hookup with guys when they can't tell if he is safe or not, and don't know if they like him or not, imagine if some girl said yes only to be led to some guys house she doesn't know to be abducted and murdered (probably from a guys point of view you are not thinking about this, but girls are naturally smaller, weaker, and aware of this), not only that but imagine she does go to your house, think of the social consiquences for her if her friends know about it, she could now be facing harsh social critisims from other girls within her group for acting in a openly promiscuous manner, not only that, but lets say she gets pregnant by some random guy she doesn't know, and finds out after the fact that she really doesn't like him at all, so many things for a girl to weigh and measure, and when the frame is so limited it will really close off alot of possibilities

it's interesting though that this is your primary idea for a course of action, there was actually a post on here a few months ago of a german guy who went out and conducted a survey where he approached 100 women while backpacking and just straight asked them if they would like to sleep with him, I believe 6 out of 100 said yes

now for other examples you can look at a show like lets say, the jersey shore for example, were alot of the guys game is close to this style, it simply revolves around asking girls if they are DTF, with higher success rate then 6/100, now go dig up some field reports from other guys useing the appocolypse opener, I'm sure you will find alot of guys who have had 0 success with this opener as well as guys who it has worked for, totally subjective to the guy
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Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this post and I hope this topic can help me picking up my first girl with the 'Nash'-method..

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this sort of approach might help you build your confidence, but if you can not will yourself to do it in the first place then no improvement will be made, this is not some sort of top secret trick to get women to sleep with you and form relationships, and it won't fix an inability to connect with people and socialize, if all you want is sex and don't care for the people involved at all, you would probably be just as well off to hire a prostitute, you possibly have some real underlying issues here that you might want to sort out before considering women as some sort of prop for you to ejaculate into to fix your problems, lets say you do go out and start just randomly asking any girl that passes by if she will sleep with you, and after doing around 100 approaches a night you start taking some girls home, what then?, you start actually having some sex, what happens after that when you realize you are still not happy? what happens when you realize these girls don't make you feel any different then before and you still feel those same feelings of emptiness, frustration and depression? where do you go from there?


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