| Hey Brothers,
Thought Id share some wisdom I've learned from the last 7 years of dating chicks online. I've been on countless dates, banged close to 30 women (1 was in 3 hours of meeting her) and have had 3 LTR all from chicks I've met through the internet. And yes I've tried them all.....POF,Match,OKC,eHarmony,Tinder......you name it..... these steps work across all media....so without further adieu...
1) Watch out for selfies. Not the obligatory bathroom selfie, we'll cover that later. I'm talking about the 3 feet from your face both hands phone selfie. This says 2 things, you're much heavier then you want to reveal and you don't have any friends to take pictures of you.
2) This is for the ladies. The guy must ask for your number within 5 messages. You don't have to give it it right away but it's important for the guy to assert himself and make his intentions clear. If he doesn't, he's either not serious, married/girlfriend or just a big pussy. Either way just walk away. He's not worth your time.
3) When you do meet someone for the first time, give them a hug. Don't hesitate. That will make it even more awkward then it already is. Just go for broke and do it. Even if you're not attracted to them. If you followed step one it shouldn't be a problem. But let's say they gained 250 lbs from the time you were emailing till they got to the bar and you know right away there is no attraction, you still should give them a hug and mean it. It starts things off on a good note and even if you know you will never see this person again, you might as well try to have a good time while you are there.
4) Guys pay for drinks. Chivalry is not dead. If you are not in a position to do this, don't go out on dates. With that said if you offer to pay and she insists on splitting it with you, like really insists, you probably did something wrong. Maybe you screwed up step 3.
5) No one goes over to your house to "watch a movie" not that there is anything wrong with going over to someone's house to "watch a movie" even if it's just in the beginning. But let's not be naive here. Don't sit down at the bar unless you're going to drink.
6) A few observations that you can make to see if the first date is going well.
She orders a second drink.
She goes to the bathroom and comes back with fresh lipstick
She flips and curls her hair with her fingers.
Sits with her legs facing you and hands at her sides and leans in when you are speaking.
Laughs at your stupid jokes.
7) This is a long one but I feel it needs to because to many guys screw this up.
You must close! She must see you as a sexual being. If not you end up in the dreaded friend zone and there is no coming back from that god awful pIace. If you don't close you are telling her that you are weak. Natural selection is pre-programmed into the very basic fiber of our brains. Women choose strong men. If you can't show her that in the first date, you're done. Your weak seed will not be able to thrive and contaminate the rest of the world. Your lineage will die with you and rightfully so because only the strong survive. This brutally efficient game plan that permeates all throughout nature ensures our continued dominance of this planet.
So how do you apply this? Does this mean you need to sleep with her on the first date? (Step 8 will cover this) Do you need to be overly sexual and steer the conversation that way any chance you get? NO!!!!!
It can be as simple as making eye contact. Don't look away. Hold her gaze and picture her naked. She'll pick up on it. Women are intuitive creatures.
Make physical contact. Let your leg brush up against hers and leave it there. If she doesn't shift a way you're doing good. Hold her hand and open the door for her. When you are walking somewhere grab her lightly around the waste and LEAD her. Remember step 4, Chivalry is not dead. Tell her that you think she is beautiful and kiss her. Carpe Diem! Latin for Seize The Fucking Day! (Yes that is a correct translation....in between buggering young scholarly boys, Aristotle, Plato & Socrates all routinely used the word fuck! )
Now if this backfires on you at least know you tried and that will make you stand out from the other 99% of the men out there that didn't have the balls to even take a chance. Above all else she will know you are real man and she should respect you for it.
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