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I have to say that I don't get good responses when I start with a random quiz question. That means: often no response. I can get so much better responses when I note something personal about her and combine it with some teasing/compliment. Perhaps this trick works well with a specific type of profile with a specific type of girl, and mostly when she is bored online on the IM system (which many girls aren't on OKC anyway).
This is not intended as a negative comment btw. I totally appreciate the effort, and there is good information in this thread. Just the openers are not very efficient in my situation.
It actually depends on your targeted demographic. I wrote this post 2 years ago, back when I was gaming mostly college and below 25 chicks. It works well on them and most of the friendly outgoing chicks. I do find this opener quite ineffective against older sophisticated chicks. Also depends on the consistence between your profile vibe and the opener vibe. If you have a all serious profile, of course usually such playful cheeky opener would appear out of place.
However the main concept is still effective. Be casual - tease her then go for the close within 3-4 messages.