do you want to change your looks so you can like yourself more ?

or are you changing looks for woman instead ?

what is your intention and motivation ?

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for the sake of rating, 1 pic is enough imo

thing is I look in the mirror some days, late at nights and early in the morning and I see a good looking face and honestly, I think I could be much better, even Hollywood level but I want to know how to get there

and lets be honest, attractive people have it easier in life than average or ugly looking people

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Just took a better look, let me comment them.
I just get sad when I look at you, could be me, but I got the feeling that your sad and insecure (this sounds rather harsh when I read it back, no intensions of insulting you, if you're not sure what I mean ask it and I will try to explain it more detailed )

It just looks uncomfortable the way you hold your hand, other people will feel uncomfortable too because of it. (at least me, again)

it looks like you got an apple tshirt (you censored this or something? wth lol)
I personally really dont like thi kind of stuff. Get a different clothing style! (it has to fit to your personality and I don't know you, so cant tell anythign on this)

Get a haircut
http://www.thefashionbugs.com/wp-conten ... Styles.jpg
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_nhlqtamD6bk/T ... medium.jpg
http://topicden.com/wp-content/uploads/ ... rstyle.jpg

are not bad and too hard to get I think (seeing lenght of ur hair now etc)



I dont really like telling people this kind of stuff cause I got the feeling they dont like whatever you say. If some stuff is harsh, sorry for it, I didn't want to be harsh

I told you how to get there.... go back and read my post and follow its advice.

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Your smile isn't good. It looks quite AFC and extremely forced. When you don't feel like laughing, don't. In general it's a good advice to laugh less.
Your hairstyle is ok but nothing more. It's very average. When you want to stand out you can for example grow your hear until it's like the length of gambler. As it looks thick to me it will work on you and will suit your chin better. Grow a beard and only trim it once a week. (no shaving, just trimming) Your biggest problem is that your eyebrows are to thick. I'd do something about it.
Your clothing is ok. A little stiffy but ok.
And lean back.

My personal tricks to look better on photo:
1. I don't smile. I don't. (Yeah sometimes I do. But my best pictures are the ones on which I do not smile.)
2. I'll close my eyes just a tiny little. Just enough for people to feel it.
3. I'll stare right trough the lense.
4. A little tilt sideways and a little tilt downwards (never upwards).
5. I'll think about either power or sex.
My former girlfriend also teached me to point the eyes down until just before the photographer clicks and at the spot on moment you stare blank into the camera. But that creates a more vulnarable effect. Which is cool if thats the aura you want to have.

If you want to see what I mean:
http://cdn.buzznet.com/assets/imgx/1/3/ ... 632341.jpg
1. He doesn't smile.
2. little closure of the eyes.
3. Deep powerful stare.
4. Tilt downwards and sideways.
5. His look is a little sex, a little power and even some vulnarability.

If you want to improve the way you look on photo:
take loads of pictures of yourself from different angles and try out various poses until you find the right attitude.


BTW I like this topic far better than all those 'what did I do wrong' topics. As 90% of general perception is body language there's a lot to learn from photos. Maby we should me a general rate me topic or something.

thx for tips, will work on it
My hair there was (and still is) in growing phase, so working on that one.
Will work on eyebrows
As for my awkward body language, thats probably cause I really dont like the camera, and the camera really doesn't like me, so I always feel kind of awkward, with some forced laugh etc.

Thanks for the tips on how to look better on cam, but 1 thing: what do you mean with a little closed eyes, just tried it and it feels really strange haha

But what would u rate me on a ?/10 scale?

Imma take a real sexy picture for you guys when I get home

There really should be a thread for this, as some of the styles i've seen myself have, even though i thought they looked awesome at the time, were just terrible...
Although, i know im a sexy beast now

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Agree, I think I dress well but my style only seems to appeal to other guys and possibly Final fantasy 7 fanatics! This should be slapped in a sub-forum and used for style/body langauge side help.

i cannot not say i had an easy life ....

you guys focus on looks only .. there is nothing wrong with that... but if you don't have the inner game you will still act insecure...
looks are important im not saying you shouldn't improve your looks but they aren't the deciding factor - looks are just like a routine/canned game - they cover up the real insecure you.

im just telling you right here and right now .. you starting to believe that looks is the factor that will make you succesfull otherwise you wouldn't say such thing like '' hot people have easier life than ugly people''.. you already are starting to focus unconciously on '' this is the solution to it all '' crap....

it isn't

i've seen many hot crack addicts who got raped by their fathers , i've seen hot woman who became unhealthy because their boyfriend hit them everyday. do not think that having something makes it better .. with new power comes new responsiblity wether it's superficial or not.

if you think that looks matter that much.... lol .. i makes you more confident when you look into the mirror and you have a advantage in the first 10 seconds of the approach phase... you will get a date even tho you look hot - you will probably chode yourself out.. a while later you will get a girlfriend - chode out again and get dumped...

lol im a hot looking guy and it happened to me.... i did massive amounts of inner game/ igame experience and for some reason woman are more attracted to me than ever before.

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I'll play along.

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Get a fade with an 3/4 of an inch on top. Tell your barber to "line you up" as well. Shave your face and leave a little beard like the rapper TI.

Now your fresh.

Side Note: Go to a barbershop, not Great Clips.

for some reason you really really remind me of adam lyons haha.

dont worry about what others think of you. Believe you are a 10!
Then that belief will become a reality!

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