ok i met this girl a few weeks ago through a mutual friend at the pub,

first interaction was ok, loads of ioi's, but brief

anyway met her last friday night. got talking, got loads of ioi's and kinoing, isolated her which she was more than happy with.

went out for cig when she went to toilet so i would not be there when she got back. worked great, she was pretty gutted my friend said. went well all night except her ex bf was pissed and being a cockblocker.

she agreed to a date and we went to the cinema. she kept holding my arm. and i had her thigh in my hand most of the film. kissed her on the cheek but she would not let me kiss her as "it was too soon"

went back to mine. when we got there she started asking me about how i would feel about just being friends. i said i would not be interested in that, dont do LJBF etc. she gave some reason about me being too old. im 31 and she is 20. and that she had just split up with someone a month ago.

also during the night she was saying how she was trouble etc.

i put her leg on mine . then moved up til i ended up having my arm round her back and my hand on her tummy (she let me kiss it too, but said no when i kissed her shoulder)

end of night she mentioned she could fall asleep where she was. then said she had to go. got up, sat down again for a min then asked if i snored????? i said no then she got up and put her coat on.

we had bit of a discussion about what this was but i agreed to her coming over this week.

went to pub tonight with friends but they left early, was taking to her ex about my friend who was causing trouble to smooth things over. she came but i was going. finished convo with him and said goodbye to her.

is she playing silly buggers. and should i have stayed, should i text her and explain why i was not in a good mood.

Could be, but also she could be not interested.

Set up another date, escalate to the kiss, if she doesn't want it next her.

If she doesn't agree on meeting, freeze her out and GFTOW.