I've been in the field enough times to realize this.
...as of now, I have made the conscious decision to re-evaluate all the "PUA" skills I learned.
The path upon which I reached my conclusion is mostly irrelevant; all that is important is that, upon BRIEFLY looking at recorded moments of success in my life, I noticed that I could have done a lot better.
THE PAST IS DONE, but, like an acute eye watching old football play reels, I saw kinks in my technique that I have an abstract feeling almost all of us suffer from:
The major kink is that...I did not fully understand WHY PUA techniques worked. I did them, without knowing the abstract idea behind them.
I acknowledge that I don't know why negs, DHVing, cocky funny, and all that other crap works. I did it, and THOUGHT, under my OWN, INCORRECT light, that MY method, which is WRONG, was RIGHT.
The method is the method. What the expert says...is TRUE, because the expert has perfected the method. The expert is CORRECT, I am NOT (Yet...)
I did everything RUNE'S way, and I did it WRONG.
The correct way is doing it the RIGHT WAY, AS SAID BY THE PERSON WHO DID IT RIGHT. Only THEN, on MY side, when I start getting what "I" want, is when I can call it RUNE'S way.
Because it won't be RUNE'S way, or MYSTERY'S way, or AFC ADAM's way...it is just THE...way. THE way.
THE way...works. And that's it.
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is the secret to success. You can't see it, and I'd rather you just find it. It's right in front of you, and you've had it all along.
Just...stop...thinking...
