You will have to excuse the attention grabbing title,
but after recently having doubts about the community and my involvement in it, I am curious to the answer. I am starting to think a lot of this doesn't help too much, yes some selected things do help: fashion, health, interesting life, basic social skills, 60s stuff, shit tests etc.

But, is most 'game' BS?

So I ask
Does anyone here get laid regularly by different random women from cold approach pick up?
(cold approach here meaning, someone who you do not know i.e. they are not in your social circle)

No judgement here on anyone who answers, neglects to answer, lies, tells the truth, low numbers, high numbers etc. I will assume most are being honest and I have no doubt that some posters here do in fact get laid regularly.

I will go first: No I do not, I get laid by a 'new girl' once a month recently.

I am aware that this anti-community notion is not new - aaron sleazy.
Also an implied issue from this is of great importance, the issue of the blind leading the blind.

I don't go out as much as I like. But yes thanks to online dating. Its such a better way to connect to new people who don't have their defences up unlike a club or bar. Day game is Meh but I am working on it. Also you get in the right circles with girls they do not mind passing you around like a piece of meat.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

"I will go first: No I do not, I get laid by a 'new girl' once a month recently. "


It's a good thing you said it yourself..'Cause you would not like my version.


On another note:yes,alot of the guys here are BS'ers but,if you look below,the ones that are real are pretty obviouse...And there are many.


If you would actually put time and effort on 'Game' you will see it for yourself.

I personally think that you gave advice to people here even if you didn't really knew what you were saying..it just made sense to you..Can you see where I'm getting at?

Like cold app' Pick Up-You should screen for shit tests and know what's up.

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"Hank Moody: I love women, I have all of their albums."

"Vi Veri Veniversum Vivus Vici."

Read This One:
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I have put lots of effort in to improve my 'game', much more so than a lot of others, due to this I have more experience with women/ game than the average poster.
Not sure what you are saying here.
The only advice I have ever gave is based on solid experience.

Nowadays Im sort of "retired" but yes I used to.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I haven't gotten laid from a cold approach yet, but I've only been doing pickup a few months. However, I have gotten laid, and I am certain that it only happened because of the skills I learned in the Venusian Arts. Some guys here are great pua's and get laid frequently, whether it's from cold approaches, online dating, or other things. It's not all about meeting a girl in a club and f-closing her later that night. You can learn so much from pickup. It helps you get phone numbers, kiss close, and meet friends and wings, and even helps with longterm girlfriends. It teaches you how to interact in social situations and deal with people in all aspects of your life. If you measure yourself or others simply by the number of hot babes they've fucked as a result of cold approaches, then you are selling everyone short.

That being said, people do post about hypotheticals and give their "two cents" opinions, even outside of their own scope of experience or frame of reference. It comes down to the fact that you can be a great basketball coach but a shitty basketball player. The advice you give might help others even if you aren't able to fully utilize it in your own life. I'd say that it only becomes problematic when you have people talking out of their ass when they have no clue about what they are discussing or how the real world ACTUALLY works. But honestly, I don't see too much of that here.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

If you prefer FBs to one-night-stands, a new girl every month is a fine pace. That's about where I plateaued once chasing tail stopped being a priority.

At my height, it was a new girl every week. Half thru online game and the other half thru approaches at bars.

My average? Even at my age is still 12+ per year, Although the summer has kept me busy enough with two FBs. One drawn out target. And one LDR.

Believing in your self works better than any "Game" the rest is helpful hints!

The things I say on here are my beliefs, and things I have done, even the ones that didn't work!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Getting laid by new girls all the time isn't a lot of peoples' goal.. it takes energy and free time. I have a primary relationship and FB's who go in and out of rotation. I don't need new girls all the time. They just wouldn't fit into my schedule.

A better question might be, "how many people are happier with their interactions with the opposite sex due to things they have learned from the community?"

Or how many people are just happier people in general due to what they've learned from the community? I know I am. The stuff I've learned here has been invaluable and drastically changed my life for the better.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

Pickup is a form of male self-improvement. Because you'll never get the type of women you want unless you are happy with yourself, having fun, and being the best version of yourself that you can be. It helped me turn my life around, get off pot, and start taking better care of myself. The part of this that involves women is really just the bonus.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Good reply Wolf!

I did pretty well for the first year+ that I was sarging per se, but have settled into a LTR (open) and a couple of FB in the cities I work in. Now am I happier than I was when I was married, I can't say that overall I am happier, but I am happy with where I am at and the direction my life is going.

I think that it is the mindset for each individual because deep down inside we all want slightly different things to imporove oour lives.

Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Laid regularly from cold approach pick up? No. Not yet and far from it. Have to say, it's not my primary goal.

Laid sometimes from cold approach pick up? Yes. And I wouldn't have the same success without this community, but perhaps that is because I wouldn't even have tried without this community.

This community does improve the lifes of many though, because it pushes you into interactions with people and without it, I wouldn't dare to step to a woman and just start talking.

And to get laid regularly from cold approach pick up, it's probably possible if you try hard enough and not alot to do in your life. If you approach 50 woman a day, you're bound to have success at some point..

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Good responses, I have foolishly assumed that everyone’s goal is the same; a better question would be along the lines of Wolfd's, have you got what you want from the community?

Guys do have different goals e.g. girlfriend, fucks buddies, pimp lifestyle...

Though having said that people do not always truly know what they want. They may rationalise what their goal was or what they wanted from pick up, is in fact what they have ended up with after their efforts. Goals evolve as well, when I first entered the community I wanted to be a pick up superhero with amazing skills with women. That has drastically changed.

But who can honestly say they would not like three smoking hot 10s as fuck buddies, or a hot string of one night stands?

Most everyone would love to fuck hot babes all day, that goes without saying. But it won't just fall into your lap, not for anyone, including Brad Pitt. You have to actually put forth some effort and put yourself out there. And there are trade-offs.

A problem I have is that I don't like interacting with women that much. I find them annoying for the most part. Unless I endure hours and hours of boring and annoying interactions, I'll simply never get to bang a bunch of broads. But what I want to learn from PU is a better understanding of women and how to get what I want out of them when I choose to be around them. I cant' reasonably expect that PU will somehow allow me to have neverending sex when I openly admit I am not willing to put in the requisite work to accomplish that.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Pick up stuff or social dynamics as I prefer to call it has helped me in every aspect of my life. Just taught me better how to relate to others.

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What you sow is what you reap