What is the best way to make friends with girls at work. I'm not talking about for sex, just to make friends with them and use them as pivots in the future. So what's the best way to "sarge" them.

Basically seduction without any kino whatsoever is what lands you in the 'friend zone.' Obviously seduce them very very subtly as you don't want to have a relationship with someone you work with, but as you open up to them they will open up to you and you will wind up with a very close friend whom you could go out with. I'm doing this with one of my coworkers and she's quite fun to talk to!

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But how do you go about opening them up at work?

For once something I have experience in (kinda)
Where I work there are a fair few HBs and personally I found a great way to open them is just ask them if they know about a certain product that a customer asked you about (if in retail which is what I do) then make a little joke about the customer or something situational like that, then later on open them again with the same situation with a different joke, ask her name and just get into a conversation.
Now what I've said above isn't concrete but I've done it a few times and it's worked. Another simple way of doing it is just by being humerous with other coworkers around her (like within her vision or hearing) then saying hi and asking her name and so on. I think the coworkers thing gives you social proof and it helps if you know allot of people in the workplace because it seems like you're "the guy to know" in a sense. The way I got one going was by isolating her whilst we were both on break (if that's possible for you I don't know) generally breaks where I work are pretty boring and people are always up for getting into a conversation especially if it's someone new that they'll be working with. You can never have too many friends in the workplace.

I'm pretty much rambling here but hopefully I've said something right in that mess of text above

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How many people work in your company? Do you not have to speak to her as part of your work? Surely there are plenty of situational openers you can come up with?

If you want help with them, what is the company? What is the nature of the business? How often do you see this girl as part of your work?

I'm a bartender, and at my restaraunt there may be 2 HB8's...the one i have been flirting with hass a boyfriend although she openly admitted to being attracted to me and always throws IOIs my way...what is a good boyfriend breaker that I could use...they have only been dating for 5 months so i wouldn't be breaking something serious up...lookin forward to some pointers...

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