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Gay
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This girl, who is currently my mate, is EXTREMELY Self Conscious. She won't eat, drink, do drugs, get drunk, or even write to me, becuase she is too Self Conscious about whatever it is.


She won't write, her writing is ugly.

She wont get high, shes afraid she might do something (i kinda get this)

She won't eat. (???)

She won't drink. (see above)

She won't give me tounge in public. (????)

How do I show her its alright, I've tried talking to her, showing her I don't care.... Any help is welcomed. Thanks

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Well don't worry, if she won't eat, then she's sure to expire soon and you won't have to worry about it much longer.

If she's seriously that much different from your ideals, then is it gonna be worth it for you to put all that effort into making into something else just to make you happy with her? Will she even be the same person she is now?

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Give her some foundations for her confidence. Remember, she won't see those things, but you can set frame of almost any action as her being super-worthy.

In layman's terms, notice things she could be proud of and be sure to bring it up to her, you being sure that she is confident (validated). Be a support.

Carpe Diem.

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Jesus Christ, this girl sounds fucked up. Kick her to the curb or make get some serious psychotherapy and take her back when she turns into a normal human being.
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Well to be honest guys she a a HB9, she's really fun and I rather keep her.


I don't get what your saying rye..... And I dont want to change her, just make her realize I like her for her and not if she eats like a man....

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I would take her out and teach her to pick up girls.

From the symptoms, she is obviously lesbian.
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make her run naked through the mall, after that wats the worst that can happen,i no a girl who actually did it and now she right
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Well don't worry, if she won't eat, then she's sure to expire soon and you won't have to worry about it much longer.
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