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Would you have slept with either of them?
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:49 am 
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Last night my buddy had a party. He lives in the same apt. complex as me, in another building. So we go over there, people show up, have a good time. He and my roommate leave to go to my place to smoke some bud, they bring another kid and these two girls that we've partied with before. When they come back, I ask my roommate where the girls were and he said they left. A little while later my buddy hosting the party tells me they are still at my apartment. Now I'm a little pissed at this point, since these girls are kinda sketchy.

I will call them blonde and brunette. I've known blonde for about a year and a half, we only slept together (cuddled, no sex) when we first met. She is friends with my roommate's girlfriend. Brunette is friends with blonde, I've only met her a few times. I'd say she's a 5.5, while blonde is... well I think most would say 8. But now she smokes, and that really knocks her down for me.

So I get back to my apartment to find blonde puking in MY bathroom, with brunette sitting on my floor outside the bathroom. Needless to say I'm pretty pissed... Brunette asks me if I'm mad, I tell her a little and ignore her for a while. I went on my computer, actually on the chat here as well. She keeps wanting to talk to me, I answer with as little words as possible. She asks me if I have any porn, and says she wants to see some. So now I think this girl wants sex, but she is below my standards so I refuse to show her any and tell her to check on blonde. Later she calls me an asshole, I laugh and ask why and she tells me that I know. I said I didn't and told her to tell me why. She smiles and says nevermind, so I go watch tv in the living room to let her know I don't want any.

As I get ready for bed, brunette is laying on the floor outside my bathroom door while blonde is sleeping next to her. So I turn on my TV and get in bed. A little while later, blonde gets up and asks me if she can sleep in bed with me. I made her assure me she wasn't going to puke, then tell her she can. She changes her pants to pajama pants right in front my TV, bending over to make sure I see. So now my head is debating whether or not to have sex with her, since I know she is drunk and that would be lowering my standards yet again. I decide to think with my head and not my penis, and I neglect to even cuddle with her to make sure nothing happened. She kept saying things like "I'm cold." and "Feel me I'm shaking." She thought I was mad at her because I wouldn't cuddle, and I kinda was still.

Damn this post got long, but I'm bored at my parents house tonight so I hope it was a good read. So, would you have slept with either of them? Blonde has my sweatshirt still, so I'm going to have to get that from her soon. I'd say I'd have sex with her if she was sober, but I won't do a drunk chick. Am I just a retard for not taking advantage of the situation?

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Brunette (she is a little fatter and uglier now, dunno how old this pic is but it looks old):
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I would have negotiated a threesome.

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Even if one is drunk and the other is ugly? Maybe I need to lower my standards a bit, could be why I'm still a virgin.

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To each his own really. I am extremely attracted to like 6-8's more than 10s. Just cause for some reason i connect with them more.

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Who gives a shit what anyone else would have done in that situation?!

I may have slept with the blonde and if the brunette looked like she does in the pic, maybe her too, but that doesn't matter at all, because you didn't want to. YOU are the only person that determines whether you sleep with a chick or not. I've passed over a bunch of opportunities, because a girl didn't meet my standards, so I threw her number out, or flat out refused sex. It's YOUR choice and no one else's.

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well said.

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Even if one is drunk and the other is ugly? Maybe I need to lower my standards a bit, could be why I'm still a virgin.
You're still a virgin? Dude, you hella don't look like a guy who'd still be a virgin. I mean that as a compliment.

And don't lower your standards. I did that a couple times, because I was just so horny - you end up feeling cheap and dirty. It really isn't a pleasant experience at all. Just game the girls you're honestly attracted to, and only engage in a situation you're comfortable with. If you don't want to sleep with a drunk chick, then don't. I think you're taking the right approach.


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Dude, don't sleep with chicks that are that wasted... aside from being technically rape, it's shady and AFC. Rise above.


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Yeah, I would've done em both.

I mean, come on, if you break into my house, get high, get drunk, baptize my bathroom, beg to see my porn, do a striptease in front of the TV, jump into bed with me, keep me awake with stupid shenanigans like whispering "hold me I'm cold", then yeah you're gonna get banged all night long until you shut the hell up and let me go to sleep.

Just bein' honest. :D

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You're still a virgin? Dude, you hella don't look like a guy who'd still be a virgin. I mean that as a compliment.
Haha, I can only take that as a compliment. And that is how most people feel after meeting me, some think I'm a player when I'm truely just an AFC in disguise. I don't have the complex of a virgin, but I have the stats :P.

And yeah, I guess I did the right thing... Blonde texted me this morning telling me she had the flu and knew she didn't throw up because of drinking. We talked for a bit and she kept apologizing for throwing up and ruining my night. I kinda beat around the bush to avoid letting her know she did a bit, as she is still in bed sick. Then she let me know she was all alone for Easter and all this other crap, I kinda just said that sucks and told her I was jumping in the shower. Maybe I was being a dick to her, but thats life. Oh yeah, and she is washing my sweatshirt and returning it soon.

Now I need to go out and game those quality girls that I'm looking for.

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