So the last post I made was titled "Always Be Closing" and how you should be always taking the next step towards the close. (not talking about making the next step towards a kiss close or a number close either. I'm talking about getting your dick wet) Now, the only issue is... Sometimes, we screw up. We make a mistake. We make the wrong move. We say the wrong thing. We don't make a move at all when we should. There are many, many, many different ways you can screw up with a girl and wind up going to bed with nothing but some lotion and a box of kleenex.

This is what's going to set the men apart from the boys... How are you gonna fix it? You've gotta be able to think quick on your feet. You've always gotta have another "trick up your sleeve" to help you get back onto that path of closing. Unless you are a SUPER quick thinker... You're probably going to wind up blowing it. It's okay. Make mistakes. Screw up. That's how you learn!

Have you ever been in a verbal altercation with another guy (especially when you were younger) and said to yourself afterwards "Damn, I should have said..." Well, getting good with women is the same fucking thing. After the interaction, when you have one of those "I should have said..." moments... Remember that shit. I always carry a little notebook with me (they are a dollar for 2 of them from the grocery story and they fit in your back pocket with out being noticed) to write shit like that down. All the shit I "should have said" or "should have done" goes in there. That way, when I screw up... I make not only a mental note of it but a physical note as well... So the next time something similar happens, I know what to do.

Here's what I'm getting at... the quickest way from point A to point B is a straight line, correct? Now, nobody is perfect. Of all the pulls I've had, none of them have ever been remotely close to a "perfect pick-up." So don't be afraid to veer off of the straight path of Open to Close... Just learn how to fix your screw ups and remember what your goal is. After you screw up... figure out what you've gotta do to get yourself back onto that path to closing.

-Jay

Writing a journal also works wonders. Sometimes nice to read back some of those good-ass reports in-case if you feel down, to get that motivation back.

Wallie

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