Back in 1st year high school, when I was inexperienced with gaming and girls, I really liked this girl which I asked out and told her that I liker her(very stupid), and she said no, and kinda made fun of me for doing such thing. Throughout the years of high school, I wasnt the most popular guy, so I didnt really show that Im high value guy so she got the image of me being not a high value guy, even though I was social and had many friend and a few gf's. It's been years of how Ive asked her out, both moved in deifferent directions in life, and now I see her sometimes(once in 2-3 months), cause we have a friend in common, but havent tried anything yet. now Im very different compared to then, Ive become pretty good in pua(thanks to mystery method especially) and gained highvalue and great experience for the past years of gaming, date hot girls and many girls like me, im playful, also finished uni, have a job and im doing great SPAM... but this girl still has the image of me being that guy who asked her out and failed from back then stuck in her head, so any suggestions on what I can do to start slowly make her adapt that Im different now, and not the same as back then?(cause me being different now and using great stories and proof doesnt seem to change anything to her) she has no bf btw.

Own your new self. Really. OWN your new personality. Don't even think of the past. Clear you mind of all past memories with her. Convince yourself that she is someone else... just a new girl to sarge. The key will be having such a strong frame of mind that you suck her into your own reality. Just be the new you. Don't hold back and don't apologize. If you have any doubts in yourself, it won't work. If you aren't 100 percent the new YOU in your frame of mind, then don't even bother. But go at it. Don't think about it. Just do it. It has already happened in another plane of reality, you just have to make it congruent with your reality.

Of course, shower, dress nice, brush your teeth etc. before you see her. Good luck man. Go get em.


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Get it out of your head that scoring this girl is going to mean anything to your life. If you didn't like who you were back then, and you do now, then that is all the validation that you need.

Scoring girls is a side effect of being attractive.

To be attractive, you must negate others as a variable in your outcome.

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thanks, but Im still having difficulties. I prefer to start dating another girl(nothing serious), competitive to her with looks, where she wont have a choice of not being attracted to me.

When you say that girls like you... have you slept with any of them?

is it in the back of HER head or YOUR head? She might not really give a shit about who you used to be... and definitely not as much as you do. You can easily make her forget about that moment in highschool. I'm sure 500+ guys have attempted with her and failed since you. That moment is a distant memory or her.

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To be honest if you say you are actualy good at PUA it shouldnt be much of a problem to u to simply put those thoughts out of your head, look at her eyes strongly before you move into a conversation and trying to escalate.

As long as you keep your intent of what you want from this girl in your head straight and dont start mentioning the past to much that she already knows. When she mentions mistakes you made just laugh about it a litle bit and see it as an old joke, mistake, funny event from the past.


I know your problem though because i have these problems aswel with some girls. Im living in a medium to small town with just a few bars so when i fck up i still encounter these girls again next time when i go out. But girls with a negative history of yourself can be fun obstacles in live to get over(yes i say fun because you have to see it as challenges in live and have a positive atitiude about them to enjoy live even better).

Only a few words needed: GFTOW. Really, don't bullsh*tting about 1 woman, there are million others out there.

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This is the biggest flaw of the game. It does not give you the power to get your crush. It does not answer the question how to get your oneitis. Saying there are other girls is nice but that doesn't get what you want. This takes getting to know a person and knowing what they want. It's like campaign to get elected.