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No offense but that was pretty bad. I suggest never using that as an opener with women. It may be funny to other guys or people who exhibit a twisted sense off humor but in general it has way too many possibilities of a negative response/reaction.
I'm on the same page in terms of INITIATING a conversation.
However, one of our guy coaches used it this past weekend with success.
In short, he and another friend met some girls at a sports bar watching the Mayweather fight. One of the girls was celebrating her birthday, so they were in a fun mood and the guys were getting were good vibes from them.
After about an hour of building rapport, one of the girls mentioned that one of her friends wasn't drinking because she was pregnant. This was the opportune time to try the line, and he said it was a big hit.
By bringing up the topic of sex in a funny manner, he said it actually relaxed the girls instead of turning them off. He said the conversation quickly transitioned into questions about who had done a threesome and other hilarious topics such as sex toys, anal sex, etc.
They probably would have never started talking about those topics if the floodgates hadn't been opened by a funny trigger like that line.
He ended up scoring with one of the girls they met, and the story about that is so hilarious that I'll save it for a different post. However, I think the point is that...
a. Don't use that line to INITIATE conversation
b. Use your intuition to determine whether the target(s) are in the right mood for such a line
b. Use it after some initial rapport is built and when the timing is right
Feel free to let me know how it works if you any of you try it.
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