Once you get a girl devoted to you, or if you want to be romantic, deep in love with you...you can get her to do a lot of things for you. For example, my current girl asked me if she should keep tanning. I told her that she should wait a little bit but in my head I wasn't serious. Two weeks later, she hasn't tanned since...and this girl is a regular tanner, tanning everyday for 3 weeks at one point. Leadership is something every man should strive for. Or acquire leadership qualities. Just makes sure you don't become a tyrant and abuse your leadership.

The reason for the warning is that the girl will try her best to please you and will hold your opinion in high regard. So be careful. If the girl trusts you, it is your job to keep her best interests at heart because you can really take a girl for granted and that isn't what seduction is all about. Just a thought.




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You are absolutely right, every once in a while i heard guys bragging about their girls good will and how it is so manly to take advantage of that, bleh!
I even remember some douche bags back in the day offering me that 'kind' of fuck up advice.
Just one thought though, they don't forget that, i mean, they will never forget what they do to please us, especially if it compromises her 'normal' way of doing things.
For some reason, next time they get upset at us, they will trow all their little self-imposed 'sacrifices' right back at us, that much you can expect, jus saying...

of course. Just remember to give back a little as well. Or try to give back without expecting anything back. Naturally you will pass these little dramatic phases without too much conflict and bypass the resentment you might feel. Nothing but love

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"Just make sure you don't become a tyrant and abuse your leadership."
I agree.

Agreed.

I wanted to add that you have to be careful of the insults as well or in other words how you make her feel. This is where the jerk comes in and destroys her self-esteem or the man seems uncaring. Everyday my relationship is teaching me new things about how much power I hold.

For example, I told my girl she is sexy and beautiful during sex, and I usually do not do so that often. Needless to say, her face lit up like a Christmas tree and she went into a rather good mood for the whole night into the next day. Her text the next day is along the lines of, "Even though it is a gloomy looking day (it rained the half of the day) I am in a rather good mood. We should have sex more often during the week."

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