Have you ever had an experience where you did everything right (or at least you thought you did), you had tight body language, built solid rapport, used c&f and negs effectively, and basically did everything by the book and yet for some odd reason things didn't quite work out the way you expected ?

David D. made "the attraction isn't a choice" statement quite well known in the pua community.
It's true, attraction isn't a choice...however, how should one react to that attraction is essentially a choice.
For example: A married guy/girl (who's not looking to cheat) may be highly attracted to a certain someone in their social circle, and may even fantasize about them but may refrain from getting involved with them if given the opportunity.

There have been many occasions when I used game on a chick and she got attracted and reacted to it but later on pulled the brakes on herself because : she either had a boyfriend, or she just got burned by somebody recently or she got intimidated ...essentially she used her rationale side to not give in to the attraction she felt.

Yes women are emotional beings, a lot more than men, however it should be kept in mind that they aren't incapable on making rationale choices.

So even if you run the perfect game on a chick and get no result, don't take it personally, maybe it was just bad timing....

Cheers...

"i am meant to be free to fly, i never promised anything, this may well be good bye"

Yup, you can't get everyone and timing is a big part of success.

There are always other factors that will influence the outcome. Factors you cannot control. Girls will always be attracted to other men, like we will be attracted to other girls. It cannot be helped. And the timing is probably the biggest one of all. Good catch on that.


Dean A.

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