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PostPosted: Sun Apr 07, 2013 7:44 pm 
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I was rolling with 2 wings at a place last night, so that was 3 dudes in a place where all the sets of girls were 2.

We get to the dance floor area with a bar right off to the side. 2 of us go up to these two girls; the fairly new guy says he's going back upstairs for a bit. But, truth be told, he was really just lurking.

I started talking to this one pretty smoking girl in this 2-set; really enjoyed talking to her; we talked normal bullshit. She has a job where she travels so much it's clear to me she doesn't get laid. She also told me her friend has a man. Then I had to take a piss. Now I knew that the second I stepped away, someone would be moving right in on her, and I had a good idea who it'd be. There was simply no way I was gonna get to continue talking to her if I went to the bathroom.

So I get back from the bathroom, like 2 and 1/2 minutes later, and sure enough, 2nd wing who I had only met that night, didnt know really, had moved in and was talking to her. The two of them were approaching 2- sets all night so far, just like this one, leaving me as this odd, 3rd hang-along guy on the sidelines.

Almost immediately therafter, the four of them dumped me at the bar and hit the dancefloor, somewhere I'm just not comfortable at all; never been.

At this point I decide to call the night quits. Who would stick around for that? I txted wing 1 and said I gotta hit the rd.

Wing 1 I let come by and shower at my place and even take a nap before we headed into DC because he lives so far away. Can't help but wonder; and this is how I get repayed?

What do you think? Shitty way to handle your bro?

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 07, 2013 8:19 pm 
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How can he be your wingman if you don't know him? A true/bro wingman takes it over and then hands over the girl back to you right where you left her. Nevertheless, what you could have done was going in again, talk to your gorgeous girl as if nothing has happened at all. You don't wanna come of jealous right?

If your so-called wingman gets jealous or angry at you then he's NOT your wingman because he has no respect for you or your game. Stay in your own frame and don't get startled by your guy. Handle it after you fucked or left the girl. You don't want to make a scene right in front of her.

Make rules with your wings. No stealing girls, no drama, no insults, only feedback. That stuff. A wingman should be a tool in your approaches, not something that decreases your chances. Ditch this guy of he doesn't change his behaviour and make sure you choose better in the future.

Good luck!

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 07, 2013 8:27 pm 
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Yeah he was a friend of my main wing, and I didn't know him that well; just come messages on this iPhone group app we have.

I like to think I'm a good wing, but a shitty 5 th wheel, something they were relegating me to all night. And I don't think any dude would ever want to be a 5 th wheel. My new rule is no more 3-dude groups fore anymore bc this is bound to keep happening if it happened like 3 times prior same night.

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 07, 2013 11:35 pm 
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That OR learn how to sarge without a wingman, everything in your control!

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