| Look up these covey terms. This can be related to frame control, too.
The way you carry yourself is crucial to your success in social dynamics. Very crucial. For example, I was at a bar last weekend and got rejected on the dance floor by a girl who's virginity I took, lol. This girl and I ended on a bad note, ....Basically, this should have destroyed my chances, right? Nope, I plowed through, kept my composure and left to another part of the bar. Later, I came back and danced with another chick, loved it and deflected any doubts in a matter of minutes. This isn't a field report so I won't go into specifics. Either way, I could have a had a stupid look on my face or tried to dance with more girls and risk getting blown out again and again.
Another example from that night is that there was a 6'4 man, drunk as hell, going around and playfully punching guys on the face. This is an outside part of the bar (same bar). I watched the whole spectacle, just admiring at how he punched almost everyone except my friend and I. He almost got his ass kicked at some points but he somehow managed to convince them that it was all fun and games. There were points where should have gotten his ass kicked but he didn't. He supplicated to a 5'11 guy at one point. Drunk ass.
I was there for the whole thing, but I guess I gave off a don't fuck with me or I am not use to that kind of SPAM so don't try it vibe. It probably covered my friend too, since I was talking to him. My friend is a loony though, so maybe I am ego talking here.
Point is, after 5 minutes of watching this drunk he finally playfully punches me in the face but barely. It grazes me, I guess my vibe was pretty strong because he stated "it's all fun and games" and went back to the other dudes he was clowning with.
Ah, forgot to mention who out all the 10 guys in the circle jerk got the most shit to the point other guys were joining in to punch him in the face. The reactive guy. Guy had a pissed of look on his face, gave a few swings back...pussy.
Anyway, that's my general chit chat about shit. Remain proactive and remember that it's better to carry yourself as high status at all times. Not just during seduction. Adios.
Mr. A
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