So this is my first semester at a new university. I went from a commuter campus school where everyone would go home after classes, lived with their parents, and was all over the place in terms of age groups to my current university.

Current university is a division 1a school, really large (over 10,000 undergrads at least), and has a decent Greek Life. I have about 2 or 3 more semester left here after this one.

I have gotten about 2 lays here and that is it but for the past month I have hit a dry spell and a brick wall. Here are some things I have noticed:

1. A lot of the good looking girls are in sororities (too pointless for me to join a frat this late in college)
2. Most of the house parties are private and invite only

So I don't have access to those kinds of places and things. Like at my last university I managed to get some familiarity with the environment, had somewhat of a social circle, and started to build from that. At my new university I have made some friends, 3 close ones, but I haven't hit the stride yet and it seems like every single attractive girl I see is in a sorority.

What do I do about this?

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College and universities you have to be social instead of seductive. Focus on infiltrating social circles rather than banging girls. Then you can pick the girls you want to bang. You need a steady source of invites from friends who want to hang out with you before you can start gaming chicks.

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Dude, getting invited to parties is easy, just be cool with people. Make them laugh and smile.... don't just game girls, then the guys won't want you at their parties where they invite their girls.

If you are the cool guy who can teach them something, or bring some drinks you'll get invited. I got invited to shit loads of parties man... it's all about people wanting you around.

Don't forget about the library man... asking girls for help in the library is a solid opener.

You don't have to be at a party to get a girl they are everywhere. Just start a conversation when you are interested.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Ya but it seems like the upperclassmen here do not party as wild. I am in the sciences so we study a lot.

It seems like the frat crowd is more active with freshman and sophomore students.

I do go to the bars a lot but I tend to go alone which I am wondering, is that creepy?

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could use more advice

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

you told me not to game girls but then you told me to game girls at a library

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