A hot girl tells you to dance, do you dance? A hot girl tells you lets go to the club, do you go? A hot girl tells you to buy a drink, do you buy a drink? If a hot girl wants to get on top during sex, do you let her? If a hot girl is being a bitch, do you take it? I remember when I first read the game, I remember the importance of being the alpha male. Is it still important? I don't think about it so much now, but I was just wondering.

Being dominant is always important. Being the man and taking the lead creates an insane amount of attraction because it shows confidence and that you know what you want.

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Men rule women. Call it unPC, but it is as it is. lol..

Being assertive and sure of your actions is still crucially important. But don't be a dick about it just to prove a point of dominance.

If a hot girl has been flirting massively and, with a sexy as hell bedroom-eyes type wink, says "come and dance with me", then don't say no just to show her you're dominant. A hot girl says she wants to ride you and get on top, if you enjoy that then don't say no just to prove a point that you're more dominant.

However, if the girl is being a bitch, as you put it, or is trying to manipulate you in that sort of "buy me a drink" type way where they're almost certainly just taking advantage, then no, don't roll over and take it. As a general rule of thumb, I do as I want. If a girl suggests something and it is something I think could be fun I do it regardless of the fact she told me to. If she tells me to do something and I don't want to do it, then I won't do it.

My name is what it is because I am no pushover. If there are things that I don't want to do I don't do them. Not out of ill will, just because I genuinely don't want to do them. Saying no goes along way. Being assertive means you enforce your own agenda while respecting the agenda of others. Being assertive means having a confident and forceful personality. It is important when dealing with women. Women don't want to make the plans. They want you to provide them with the experience.

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I understand what you mean assertive. My game is mostly assertive and kind of inspirational leadership as in I'm going to do this and you can follow or you can leave. However, i wonder about being dominant as in making the girl do what you want to do as in dance when you want to, drink when you want to, fuck when you want to...everything on your terms even if she doesn't like it. What about that?

Well, lets not overdo it. Being assertive is enough. Remember that you still value her input. It doesn't mean that you totally control everything and become domineering. You are already showing an attractive quality. Too much of a good thing is not necessarily healthy. For example, I am a master of mysterious. However, I can be too mysterious to the point the girl is tired of it. Then I have recalibrate and let her into my world to make sure she doesn't think I am too out there.

As for dominance, same thing. You dominate but you can also let your lady take the lead once in awhile. She will feel empowered and what is not to like than to have a dominant men let you take the lead for once. She will like it.

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