I was thinking that you can just ask her how her ex boyfriend was. Like a cheat sheet, you just do everything she hated about the guy. I mean it isn't ethical in my opinion but that is basically the pattern. If her boyfriend was an asshole, well just ask what she didn't like about him and follow the same patterns. She will be yours.

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Seems good on paper.

But the major reason why this would fail is that she herself may not necessarily know what exactly attracted her to him. Or even if she DID know, there's no guarantee she would reveal those details to you. She may instead focus to reveal the negative things that ended it.

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Bad idea IMO! Please don't do this for a few reasons.... She doesn't want to talk about her ex, do you? She doesn't remember what attracted her, she remembers the reasons for the relationship's demise. Why would you ever want to focus on her negative past relationships to help you?

Theoretically it could work if she actually had insight into her attraction for him?

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The problem with this, is that most girls don't know what they want. In this case, why they actually liked the guy, who was probably a jerk. If you ask her, she won't know what to say. In the best case scenario, she's gonna say actual things that she really hated about him. Things that she identifies as being "negative". She doesn't know what she wants and because of that, she can't tell you.
It's not too hard to figure out for yourself. It just takes a little bit of effort.
And another important, but quite often thing that most of us don't really know how to handle and how to understand it.
If you replicate some of the things her ex guys used to do, and you can't make them your own, the girls will eventually be confused and think that you're exactly the same as the other guy she left/who left her. And that's when the negative aspects of this mumbo jumbo stuff kicks in.