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Hey mate, can you give some examples of when you have done this, Cheers
No dramas, i'll give examples of both.
Back in the day (years before PU), guys I knew used to tool me and make remarks all the time, because I was too weak to properly respond, was overly reactive, and was a soft target. Years later after high-school they ran into my PUA/alpha version and I made sure they knew I was now powerful, not to be crossed, and to be respected.
Old Asshole: (First meeting): "How is it? Are you still a pussy around girls?"
Myself: "Haha i'll give you girls to ask? Besides, this coming from the guy who hasn't hooked up in two years?" (Increased social circle/contacts gave me that juicy nugget). He wasn't keen to try much after that.
If past assholes try any old tricks, I make sure I passively hound/slightly bully them for the night's remainder, being dominant, owning the set, and isolating them out. I'm not one to AMOG until I see reason, but I do tend to hold slight grudges, just returning the favour.
I've tried with my AFC bros out in helping them cut the learning curve I took, such as telling one bro that he has to woo a girl at a nightspot (he expects because he knows her, and he walks the same way home, he will get lucky). It's a hug at the door every time. I tell him a tree doesn't grow in 20 minutes, that he has to escalate, he can't switch on immediately and start feeling her up at her front-porch.
I push them all the time to make approaches and break new ground. Also work on giving them pointers on how to better handle themselves as men (most phase-shift when speaking to women and go into interview mode), to not be overly smiley, be firm and be a leader, always make the decisions etc. Even small pointers on never talking about girl's other boy-interests (fast track to friendzoning). That men do not spill their feelings and heart to escalate with a gal (I was guilty of this, friendzoned), they escalate steadily, physically, and keep things physical. That they can keep a love interest hot without ever admitting infatuation.
-SilverTonguedFox