emotional connections before getting to boyfriend/girlfriend level? I don't want the exclusivity but I do want the benefits of having that emotional connection leading to potential love. I know you guys might say open relationship but the girl isn't open to the idea of one, I screened her for it and she wasn't very responsive at the idea. Any tips?

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Mmmm tough one, the chances of the girl turning on you after a proposal like that are relatively high. Girls want a sense of security in the relationship, basically they want to feel as if you have eyes for no one else. However this doesn't mean that you have to make a decision on whether or not to be exclusive. Sell her a dream and present her with the idea of exclusivity and then do your nasty deeds on the side. works only if you don't get caught though and trust me you will. i guess you have to weigh up whether or not it is worth the risk.

Yes it is possible, anything is possible actually. How? there must be a million different ways. That depends on the girl. You would have to get her emotional; women try to keep their emotions away from FWB, it could be hate, sadness, joy, anything! as long as she associates that with you. Then seduce her like you would any other girl. Take her to places she has never been before, give her a fucking good time (btw not talking about sex here), demonstrate value, and then take that away from her... you know the process. This worked for me once, but I regretted it later (don't ask). What worked for me was to get her emotional.

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SRV

Yes it is. I had something like you as well and when I kinda broke the friends with benefits thing she was disappointed. Even more: she afterwards said to me that during the months she fell in love with me until I broke it up.

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