Hey, so I just returned from a date tonight we grabbed coffee and talked then afterwards sat by the Brisbane river overlooking the city it was a perfect first date in the traditional sense but that is all. I found it very hard to create attraction, she was kinda awkward, she couldn't hold eye contact with me or even face me halve the time kino was a chore, I managed to get hold of her hand walking her back to the car but it felt as though she would let it go at any moment if she could. She seemed engaged, laughed at my jokes etc and I'm pretty sure she does like me she is just a little insecure but what have I gotta do to get a girl like that to open up a bit. Yesterday I had a date with a different girl I went around to the apartment she was staying at in Surfers Paradise. I went swimming with her, used seductive eye contact, full on kino, got her super aroused and had my dick inside her within a couple of hours. She was obviously a different breed and tonight I wasn't even concerned whether I F closed her or not I would have just liked her to have felt a little more comfortable around me.
Suggestions?

Well simply you make her feel those feelings. If she cant feel them with you, make her imagine those feeling. For example:

"Can you remember last time you were completely comfortable with someone..."
- Bla Bla Bla
"You know when your with that someone (point to yourself, put palm on your chest when saying 'someone'), its funny how you feel like you can talk almost about anything"

Its easy, just describe what you want her to feel, but disguise it in a form of innocence

That's great advice, thanks il try that.

Yea, use NLP on her.

Also, based on my experience, girls get this way when there is a serious, or boring vibe in the air. That's why you really need to get good at breaking the ice and being funny, sometimes even goofy. When I take a girl out, I guarantee you I'm going to make some retarded comment to the waitress. The waitress will laugh, I'll laugh, and hopefully my girl will too. Then I'll make some absurd proposition. "Ok, I'm going to pretend like I'm going to the restroom, but I'll actually go pull the car around. When I honk, you come running out and hop in and we'll do a dine-n-dash." Now her heart is fluttering. Is this guy serious? Or she's laughing.

That's a far cry from sitting there asking her lame questions like: "So...are you going for a two or four year degree?" BORING!

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You can also demonstrate high value and build rapport with reading material. It's very easy. Just google palm reading and search on youtube for the cube. Even with just basic tools, you demonstrate value and actually understand her. That's from my experience very attractive.

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Yep, being goofy and funny is a great ice breaker. That is the best one seriously. But many cannot perform funny and goofy when the moment comes. Anyway the message in every answer you are gonna get it is "Make her feel comfortable with you", and there isnt a right way to do it

Make her feel the feelings you deliver through your stories "I was just staring straight to her eyes (keep eye contact and point to self) and feeling like could listen to her the whole night, because anything she says sounds so exciting, because of the way she talks, have you ever felt like that"

Now that is nothing special, because you could tell that story about your cousin from Madagascar.

Im not going to tell you anything more about this, its your own job to find out what you could use this to

I once got the girl by asking if she wanted to rob a bank with me. I told her I had the escape vehical ready - it was a tamdem bike. Reason being the police would be looking for people in a car. We could then cycle into the horizon and get married in a church next to a starbucks. Or something.

Brilliant! That's exactly what I'm talking about.

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Thanks for the tips guys. The nlp stuff I have never tried before so I will do some more research and give it a go next time Im on a date. I liked the goofy stories too however bein a goof I can do, I had her laughing and smiling during conversation. I just find it difficult to connect with anyone who does'nt make eye contact. I felt likew grabbing her head and turning it at me hahaha.