| Couch surfing. . . This topic is being brought up more and more frequently on the forums, so I will share my most meaningful experience with couch surfing and what my thoughts on it is.
2 months ago I woke up and discovered I had 7 missed calls from a friend of mine, SuperMario. You might have seen me mentioning his name in almost every FR I've written.
I get on Facebook only to discover I got another message from Mario. A message which read 'Dude. . . There is a girl who wants to fuck you'. Not being able to take him seriously, I ask him 'What do you mean?' and he tells me he got a female friend from the Netherlands that wants to stay 1 or 2 nights in Sarajevo.
I noticed she had already added me on FB and thanked me for letting her spend the night at my house. . . Meaning that Mario had already accepted her, in my name. Whatever. I could use some company.
I check her profile and I see that she is 35 years old and married. I initially had no plans on seducing her at all, but I thought it would be fun getting to know someone new.
She arrived in Sarajevo and Mario helped me fix her bed and unpack her things. We sit down by the kitchen table and I ask them 'So how do you guys know each other?' . . . To which both of them reply 'We don't'. I look at them confusingly, and this is when Mario explains to me that this girl contacted him through Couch Surfing, asking for a place to stay and since Mario couldn't accept her at that point, he had pushed her in my direction.
A little strange, since he could have warned me about it, but whatever.
She stayed the first night and nothing happened. I genuinely got to know her and we had a beer out in town.
On the second day, I took her out for ice-cream. We had another nice chat, and I started talking sexually to her. We talked about sex all day up until the point we walked through my doorstep. No words needed, we immediately started making out and having sex.
She was supposed to leave the next day, but asked me if she could stay a whole week for us to continue 'having fun'. I agreed to it and we became FWBs/unofficial couple.
A week passes and she leaves the country to continue couch surfing in Turkey. . .
Fast forward until NOW. . .
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She contacted me on FB asking if she could come over to Bosnia again soon and I gladly accepted. So she did. She has now been living with me for 2 weeks.
However, when you are intimate with a person who lives with you and spends every moment with you - dangerous emotions can potentially arise. . . And in this case, they did. She fell in love with me and I will inevitably break her heart.
^I will stop the story there, as it is going deeper than needed for the topic of Couch Surfing. . .
So in my experience about CS combined with PU, there are a few noteworthy comments that can be made:
1. Don't immediately try sleeping with the girl the first night she arrives. She has entered a new country, she has met nothing but foreign people and she needs to feel safe and comfortable first and foremost. Unless, of course, she is only staying for that 1 night. Then by all means, try going for it.
2. Getting laid through CS is super easy. In general, some of the requirements for a woman to have a sloppy one night stand with you is to feel that there will be no strings attached and no way of her friends/social circle to find out she's sleeping around. This is why seducing a woman through CS could even be considered as EASIER than picking up a girl from a club, because:
~ The 'no strings attached' security is already provided. She's in a completely different country with no possible outside connection to her social circle and no possible way for her to get a bad reputation.
~ The logistics are handled. SHE LIVES IN YOUR HOUSE AND SLEEPS THERE. . . Need I say more?
3. With the above being said, you can simply make sure she feels safe by having genuine conversations with her in order to prove that you're not a blood-thirsty lunatic. . . And then you seduce her. That's it.
The woman can be anybody in the world, but ^those general principles will always apply. She can be married, she can be much older than you, she can be much hotter than you, much wealthier than you, it does NOT matter. The point isn't to get in a relationship with her. The point is to F her. So everything besides sexual chemistry is merely a distraction and completely irrelevant. Don't let it get to you. Focus on the end-goal and seduce the woman.
Unless of course you are literally just interested in hosting women for the sake of hosting.
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