Ok, this needs some explanation.
I've mentioned this girl a few times but ill make a long story short;
I met this girl at a busstation a few months ago. We chilled around with friends a few times, then we had 2 months of silence, and a month ago we started hanging around again. I liked her really much and waited too long so my best pal did better and the girl is now his girlfriend since 1 week.

Now comes the big issue here. Whenever his girl drinks and becomes tipsy, she literally hangs ON you. She hugs you, kino's the whole time if my best pal isn't around.

Yesterday evening the following thing happened:
It was 2:00 a.m. and she was quite tipsy/drunk. My best pal was lying in his bed and we i promised that i would take his GF home. I had a hard time getting her on her bicycle but we just hung around in front of his house (EVEN IN FRONT OF THE ROOM HE SLEEPS!). And he had his window open, but was asleep for sure. I was just having fun of the fact that his GF was tipsy. Her friend was there too, and one of my friends.

Suddenly she comes running towards me, literally jumps on me, and i held her for like 10 mins. I thought i was over her but when a girl you liked hugs you for 10 mins, the feelings return. Oh man, she smelled SOOOO good, she even whispered in my ear: 'you smell amazing' with a moaning sound. Pfff. Then eventually i said that she smelled nice too, and she pulled back in looked me in the eyes. THAT WAS THE MOMENT WHEN U KISS A GIRL, NO BETTER MOMENT POSSIBLE!! But i didn't do it because it's my best pal's girlfriend, and i didn't want to break my friendship with him. Still i don't know if i should regret it or that it was the best decision on my side.

Eventually i took her home and nothing else happened anymore.

So my question:
Would you destroy your own best pal's GF for your own sakes, just because you first met her, first liked her and your pal makes her his GF? I feel like i did the right thing to do.

P.S. I think i need to mention that she is 16 (in the Netherlands you are allowed to drink).

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She does it to him, she'll do it to you too.

You did the right thing. Bros before ho's, as the saying goes.

Stealing your friend's girl is not cool. I stole a girl when I started out, the guy wasn't my friend, just a PUA I met that night. She was my first kiss ever. But boy did I feel bad the next day stealing his target. It's just not something you should do, it's disrespectful, can ruin friendships.

There are millions of other girls out there just like her, even better than her. What you felt were, at its most basic level, chemicals rushing through your body, a lot of pheromones, dopamine and serotonin. It's just that.

Good job for resisting. Major respect points.

Yeah i know, i would have kissed every girl in a situation like that, i'm not someone who doesn't have the balls. But when she's hugging you, with a really amazing smell, and telling your smell nice too, resisting is really, really, really hard. I think i'm gonna tell it my pal tonight about what happened.

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you have to choose for yourself if this is right or wrong

but don't you think that is a bit disrespectful to your buddy? there are literally billions of girls in the world and out of the billions and billions, you want to fuck his girlfriend? why? just cause she flirts a bit? meet more women dude, you probably aren't if you are thinking about banging your bestfriend's girlfriend chances are that is the only good female attention you're getting in your life

I'm just having no success the last 2 weeks, that's why this was a bit of an issue. Ok, you may call this a case of one-itis, but it's that i'm not thinking 24/7 of her. It's just something i haven't dealt with yet. Still thanks for mentioning it, this gives me motivation to just cut that sh*t out of my head and move on.

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"Bros before ho's" stands only to avoid deliberately targeting a friend's GF.

Now : that girl is not serious anyway, playing too much. So you can :
- tell your friend she's not worth anything, if your priority is your friend
- fuck her if your priority is that girl, knowing that she's not to trust anyway.

I consider it's not worth a fuck. Just for the story : I fucked a 20 years old friend's wife, believing it could be a real story. Divorce, broken friendship, occured, and we're not together any more. So the choice is yours...