Hi Guys!

I'm truly honoured to have been asked to be a moderator on the forum, and gladly accepted without hesitation - I've benefited hugely from being able to get my ideas out, ask questions, and give and receive some great advice over the years, and I'm really looking forward to giving back by helping out and keeping the forum running smoothly.

I thought it would be a good idea to have an "ask anything" thread, so that anyone who might not know me and be aware of my posts, could get a chance to ask me about myself, what I do, and what I believe in.

A little background about me:

I joined this forum back in 2007 after having read The Game a few months previously. During that time, I was in a long term relationship with a girl, and I felt like I had no real options but to probably marry her, despite the fact that I felt I might be settling - she wasn't completely ugly, but she definitely wasn't hot. I thought I was supposed to settle because I didn't think of myself as an attractive guy - all the guys I saw getting the hot girls were really good looking, so I assumed that's what really mattered.

After breaking up with her I went on this journey of practicing indirect nightgame using the Mystery Model as a basis. I had a few successes - and just the feeling of being able to talk to beautiful women, and have them actually acknowledge me, listen to what I had to say, and even laugh at my jokes and smile, was a massive boost to my confidence and self-esteem.

More recently, I'd become a big proponent of the Direct style of game, specifically Direct Daygame. This was through meeting Sasha at sashapua.com He enabled me to realise that my game was actually pretty good, and I had all the tools to attract and seduce beautiful girls - I was just coming at it from the wrong angle. I was trying to use techniques to get her attracted to me, and then wait to tell her I liked her until I was sure she definitely like me, a no-win situation that prevented me from escalating things until it was too late. Now I know that the best way to ensure that you only interact with girls that like you, and keep the interaction going smoothly towards sex, is to make your sexual intent clear from the outset.

I'm starting a new phase of my life today in so many ways - I've just moved into a new house with Sasha and another couple of guys, so now we'll be able to do even more awesome gaming, and be able to offer residential programmes that will be KICKASS!

Anyway, enough about me - what's up with YOU?

Thanks for spreading the love (I'm sure that's clever somehow, but I'm not sure how).

Basic questions on daygame:
1) Escalation: how can you escalate during the day and how far can you go? Any tips on escalating things further than getting a coffee, eg. you've had a coffee, she's into you, how do you take things further when it's the middle of the day?

2) Can you build anything while walking or are you wasting your time if you're both walking? The reason I ask is that I quite often stop girls who are walking the same way as me. In that case it'd be strange to stop her then, after you've finished doing your thing, walk the same way as her.

1) Obviously, anymore than just a bit of light kino (armtouching, etc.) would be weird on the street during the day. As for the insta-date, personally I don't like them. Unless she's got no legitimate time constraints and you can conceivably get her home, I don't like to sit around for an hour just building comfort, without the possibility of closing. Notice I said possibility - you don't HAVE to close, but just the sexual tension in the background gives a proper date direction and purpose. Daytime dates don't have that. If you definitely can get her back, then just do the same extraction you'd normally would - invite her back for ANY reason, and then physically escalate.

2) So, the problem with walking alongside her, is that if she takes a turning, it will be creepy to follow her. If you do happen to begin the conversation whilst walking, you MUST get in front of her and get her to STOP as soon as possible. An easy way it to just say "oh well listen I gotta get going" whilst stepping in front of her and offering to shake hands. Then, just continue the conversation!

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Thanks for the tips; interesting read from someone who knows their stuff.
The specific incident I had in mind was at the train station. Me and this girl were waiting for the same train. I got us chatting. Went straight for a coffee. Light kino went well. Stuggled to work out how to build. Had about 90 minutes of time together. Would never see each other afterwards and neither of us lived locally. Could I have really gone anywhere with this?
With hindsight, I'd play a 'no regrets' gambit I thought up and try for the k-close. Obviously, only useful in a limited number of situations.
The road I take in to town gives me between 5 and 10 mins to chat so I could walk and chat. There's also a cafe at the end of the road, so theoretically, I could do an instant date, but you don't reckon that they're any good?

re. instant dates not being good, is this because you're used to London where you game lots of girls per session and are farming numbers for later?

Hi Ryan/Blondguy congrats to the promotion:)

Over to the question. I have been into the gaming world for a year now and been focused on clubs and bars. My biggest problem by far is the approach and my strong side is when i have contact and going into the midgame. Now i want to learn some daygame!

1. How did you transition from nightgame to daygame?

2. Is there any reading/videos that will bring some deeper insights into the world of daygame?

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Im from Sweden so sorry for any grammar or spelling misstakes.

1. You couldn't have gotten much out of that situation anyway. You had a nice interaction with a pretty girl, that's all. You can enjoy it for what it was, instead of worrying you didn't get some kind of "close" out of it.

2. I don't like insta-dates for many reasons. Partially I feel like it's golden time on a weekend I could be out getting more numbers, yes. But mainly it's because I feel like chatting during the day without the possibility of turning the conversation sexual, getting her horny, and actually going back to mine, is just more and more time building comfort and rapport, which is a recipe for getting friendzoned. And yes, you can go massively direct on a girl, and then sit down and chat too long, and get friendzoned by her. It's happened to me!

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1. I learned a few direct openers, learned how to get in front and stop a girl on the street, and then just went out every Saturday and Sunday from noon - 8pm doing approaches! It's a lot easier than nightgame, especially if you already have good conversational skills / midgame. Since I already could continue a conversation pretty well in nightgame, it made everything pretty easy for me because the openers tend to hook the girls that are interested immediately, so then you just start talking about shit and they'll stick around.

2. Mode One: Tell Women What You're Really Thinking by Alan Roger Currie is the best book I've read about the direct mindset. If you've ever been friendzoned, it's the book for you!

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Where are your Lay Reports?

I don't post lay reports because I consider them to be bragging.

My ex-gf found this site and read every post I ever wrote, including ones about her, so I'm even less inclined to post them now!

A lot of the time, I will mention a girl I'm seeing or a girl that I fucked up with in the form of a story to highlight a particular point whilst answering someone's question. I think that's a better way to help guys than posting a long-winded journal celebrating how amazing my game is.

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Congrats Blond Guy i feel like my comment last week is so understated now. Well done man its been good to see you grown and change on the forum! Well done

Happy Hunting

Regards, Saint

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Thanks!

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Then why don't you just reap the non-feedback-oriented benefits that writing LRs bring by keeping them in a private log somewhere?

Surely you don't think that all LRs are just nothing but bragging, right? They are considered to the be standard by which you track your progress and legitimacy of a PUA on the internet.

One of the important pieces of advice I give out is that you have to make the girl feel like she can trust you, and show her that she won't be considered a slut, and you won't go around telling your friends all about how you fucked her. It's the kind of thing a girl will look for and instantly get turned off and feel hurt by - like going over and high-fiving your friends after you got her number. You should be happy enough with the sex, there's no need to go around telling everyone about it. This is the main reason I didn't used to post LRs.

Imagine if a girl you were seeing found this website and saw a LR about her, where you described all the techniques you used to seduce her, what her rating on the 1-10 scale was, what some of her weird qualities were, how big her tits were, etc. How do you think that would make her feel? How would you feel having her see how you portrayed her? This is the reason I definitely will NEVER post an LR ever again.

If you look over my posts, you'll see a lot of references to girls where I did or said something, in order to illustrate a point. That keeps the girl anonymous, whilst giving real-life scenarios that happened to help understand the technique or situation. I consider that to be more helpful than reading a long story about one girl, only some of which may actually be relevant to anyone, and only some of which is actually the REASON why the guy got laid in that instance.

As for my legitimacy, anyone can go to my reviews and hear students say for themselves what they think of my method and my teaching, and I'll be posting videos of my approaches soon when we update the new sashapua.com website* and stick up a section with my info and blog!




* p.s. when we do the website update in a few weeks, the prices will be going UP. If you have been considering doing a daygame bootcamp, now would be a great time to sign up and lock in the old price!

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What does a day of 'going to the malls' look like for you?

Then why don't you just reap the non-feedback-oriented benefits that writing LRs bring by keeping them in a private log somewhere?

You're clarifying your previous comments without answering my new question.

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