Very odd because this hasn't happened very often, but I have been meeting girls who won't text me back after I send them a funny text. Some girls I have established enough comfort and attraction with, and even hooked up with. A few of these select girls have been drunk or had some alcohol though.

I generally send out a funny text about an hour after we leave a venue basically saying nice to meet you, then another a few days later. Some of these girls have just not answered me back, but I am confused towards why. The whole interaction was really awesome, ending with a hookup at times, but nothing. One girl (drunk) kept asking where I live because she wanted to go back with me but her friends had to take her and leave with her.

Honestly, I feel like the game is solid and successful with them. Do you maybe think that there have just been some bad odds or coincidence? It has only been the past 3 girls straight that I met for the past few weeks. None being as hot as a girl I met right before them and went on a date with. May be over-analyzing.

Anyway, I usually don't ask for a lot of advice on here because I like to give it a lot, but thanks in advance for the help.

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over-analyzing

or that's atleast what I can make of not getting a reply to a 'nice to meet you' text.

Is it bothering you?

Yeah man I absolutley understand where you are coming from here and its common. Whats basically happening in my opinion here is an innnability to close. Im not saying its completely your fault and Im not saying you dont have the ability to close but you are escalating your girl to a point of no return. Basically if you are about to leave the comfort stage of the game and proceed to seduction you have to do it that night. If not, shes going to wake up the next morning, see your text and think that you just want to pick up where you left off with her. She thinks all you want to do is fuck her and she doesnt want to feel like a slut.

If you think you will not be able to take the girl home that night number close in the comfort stage of the game. That means no intense making out, no kissing with toungue and no insinuation of sex. She will be much more likely to want to see you again if you havnt already conveyed that you wanted to sleep with her.

A drunk girls mind is so much different than a sober girls mind. Cheers.

-BRAD

Been in the same boat recently, been having solid game, but girls have been relatively drunk. I believe that I am getting them turned on really sexually, than dropping them cause I dont have logistics planned or what ever the reason and maybe bradd is right that they are left in a state where they just think I want booty call???

Point is I really don't understand where I went wrong. But I do know I need to work on immediate attraction, can anyone give me tips on how to get this phase set. It is solid and works but I need it 10x better!

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@Jav

Yeah just because I'm hard on myself. You're right though. Its simple and doesn't require much thought so it might just be coincidence.



@brradd

That is what I generally try to do. The making out gets the attraction out of your system so it is not always a great idea.


@raphael

I think women have just become more odd as the days progress.

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