Hi Community,

First of all I want to thanks the guys in the chat that gave me the little push that I needed to write this. (Roads, Hobbit, Crypto, Fraction, PanPan, Risen, Unlimited C, Yillan and Bonita).

You are looking for somethings, that's why you are here, you probably want to improve yourself, you probably want to become better with women, you probably want to be the next Mystery or you just want to improve your social skills. Well lets get things straight...

YOU AREN'T ALONE...

There are many like you... you are in a giant boat full of guys that don't know where to go, you are confused, there is so many material that you don't know where to start, you want to learn everything and you want to become the better PUA in the world.

Well let me tell you something about myself... I have 2 years in the community and well what can I share...?

You have arrived in the Third Generation of the community, you are in the middle of a big change, the community is becoming mainstream, so how do we adapt?

One of the biggest characteristics a PUA should had is Adaptation...

You need to learn to Adapt to situations, to improvise, but in the big picture we have to adapt to the environment we are in... right now, depending on where you live, the community probably is well known by some of them or maybe not... but BELIEVE ME, IT WILL BECOME MAINSTREAM. We are having Reality shows, we now have whole stands in the libraries in the category of self development...

The beginning of an enormous change... but don't be afraid... because YOU will adapt... if we want to succeed we will change. We will become a Generation of Naturals, the unnaturals that become naturals.

The sections of this forum will begin to change, the sections of Body Language, Fashion, Style, Inner game and life style will get bigger and they will start getting most of the attention. Routines will become obsolete and we will find ourselves living a lifestyle than learning techniques.

The changes won't be from AFC to MPUA it will be from unnatural to a complete new Lifestyle and the basis will be Inner Game.

Confidence and more Confidence, we will become smoother, we will become experts in social dynamics, we will be talking experts, we will be flowing in the venues, like rockstars... there will not be openers, a smile and a Hi will open any set... we will not find Bitch shields.... because we will irradiate positive feelings to everyone around us. We will glow...

WE ARE THE FUTURE!! not Mystery, not the methods, not the routines, WE ARE THE FUTURE OF THIS COMMUNITY either we become Social Masters together ... or we are going to crumble....

Use Inner Game...

Reading books of soccer won't make you the best player... you have to practice... GO OUT !!!

Inner game is the relationship between your mind and state with your body. Believe it or not you project how you feel, what you think.

Meditate, know yourself, who are you? what do you like? Find passions...

Your mind is powerful, you will have to believe in yourself... you will have to become yourself!

If I could give you the best advice I can, I will tell you...

Improve all your aspects of your life, develop an interesting and passionate lifestyle and women will join you in your fantastic trip.

You can use PU techniques and knowledge in every field of your life. You can seduce everyone...

You want to improve your inner game.... well everything is in your mind... and your mind will be hunting for pieces of evidence of the reality you want to create... enjoy complements and give complements...

The one that said don't say complements to girls is an ASS!! If you find something unique about someone and you think it deserve a complement go ahead and do it !!

You will create a unique lifestyle that will make girls want to join your reality... You will see life as a journey to be enjoyed.

You know you create your reality... You won't let someone change that.

You can see everything as you want. Because everything is about perspective...

Take a time for yourself...

It will take time... this isn't easy... you might have only 2 months in the community and you might feel discourage. Well my friend don't worry... everyone start like this... is like a game... you can't become a pro in 2 weeks... you have to develop some skills.

Enjoy going out... imagine you are a social magnet... imagine you glow positive energy and SMILE !!!

How to pick up a girl... ?

Hold Eye contact for 1.5 sec and smile...

Smile with your eyes... and with your mouth.

Practice what you like ... and talk about what you like and explain why you like it... !!

Express how you feel... be open, be creative. Write, Draw... Think... Laugh.

Enjoy your life, You only live once, motivate yourself ... make a to do list and start doing it.

Adapt this lifestyle in which you enjoy your life, like yourself, accept yourself, like your job, and women will start to crowd your life.

Do something interesting every day... Learn something new. Make some trips... and learn why people think in one way or another... ASK ... make questions... be kind with everyone.

This post is the first part... it is the introduction to a Lifestyle that will make you (unnatural) a natural...

If you accept the challenge start with this small exercise, post your answers and we will compare and discuss them... (This exercise will help find something about yourself so we can expand this and use it to create your unique lifestyle.)

1. Define yourself in one sentence. (MAX: 15 words)
2. One adjective that define your current state
3. What type of Natural do you want to become. (The bad boy, the charming guy, the rich guy, the arrogant, the smooth, the elegant, the romance guy, the popular) choose one or create your own... but with one basic characteristic.


ACCEPT THE CHALLENGE !

SUCCESS,

FOR YOU,


XFMAN

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How a PUA see the world
Saturday, Sep 20, 2008

"Follow me into the rabbit hole and tell me how deep you want to go"

This community is a small Matrix in it, you can find many things, you can learn what you can't in books, this is what you where looking for...

YOU were looking FOR THIS, you wanted to find something that could change your pathetic and miserable life or at least, something that could motivate you and give you some hope.

Here you are and you stand in this ground, reading books, learning and watching closely.

And this feeling of uncertainty makes you keep reading but you try it and you fail, yo look for answers, you understand advices and the things you read as you want to, you ain't here for a quick fix, that doesn't exist.

When you finally start understanding this is when you start seeing things like a small eye movement when she is thinking, and you know what she is going to say. When with some eye contact and a smile you know that in 1 hour she will be hugging you.

You go out to search girls, we go out to live, we become energy suckers, we need to talk, we need to open we need to BE and BECOME every time we go out, we go for the love to party, we go out to experiment social dynamics, we go there to enjoy the flow of society we are the premium observers, we see what we want to see, we create our own reality, we hold it for a second more than everyone else, we push limits, we go insane, we aren't searching for what else we can do, we are searching for what we can't do.

"I'm trying to free your mind. But I can only show you the door. You're the one that has to walk through it."

Stop reading books! Understand them, internalize them, question everything the say, why that works?

BECOME what you desire.

"You have to let it all go. Fear, doubt, and disbelief. Free your mind."

We see each interaction as a unique moment passing by that can't be stopped but it can be enjoyed.

"The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. When you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of people we're trying to save, but until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand that most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it. Were you listening to me, Neo? Or were you looking at the woman in the red dress?"

We are the ones that see things the other way around, we are the new philosophers, we have our own thoughts and we have our own lifestyles.

This is a part of the next post that follows up the "Future of the community" (You should have an ideal model of Alpha male you wan to become)

This is fundamental things that you will understand as you think about them ...

Now chill, enjoy your day and LET YOUR MIND THINK IN YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS.


"It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth."

"Welcome to the real world."

_________________


My website: www.pualife.webs.com

New TWITTER account: http://twitter.com/xfman1

Facebook: xf_pua@hotmail.com

Great thread.

The only thing that I didnt undestood was that about "types of natural". Can you explain that further?

Lets say it goes with your idea of your future lifestyle.

Do you see yourself as the Bad Boy, The romantic style ?? Choose your style...

What's your future style Red Mole ?

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My website: www.pualife.webs.com

New TWITTER account: http://twitter.com/xfman1

Facebook: xf_pua@hotmail.com

The game has a serious issue facing it. Too many guys and girls watching Mystery on TV! He's a genius, sure....

*sigh* if people only knew exactly how happy we're talking here, huh, H?

That being said, awesome post xf. If you're inquiring about people's styles - I am an asshole. Or, put it gently, 'bad boy'

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On we plough.

Love,

Ace

And i'm James Bond, smooth and seductive, charming the pants off every single lady in the world, except moneypenny.

As for the post, XF - this is pure gold, and you're 100% right. If you want to become a more organised person, you start organising, and over time it becomes a habit, you don't spend two months working on your inner game about organisation before you start actually organising things. So you have to get out there and start TRYING and you can only then wait for your inner game to catch up, which it will, it's more difficult to feel helpless about pick up if you're successful.

*Applause*

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Definitely a great post. Everyone should read this.

As for me, I used to be the badboy. I think this came from my original mindset and why I got into the seduction community. As time went on, right up until now, my image has changed. I still have the badboy touches but tend to come across as one girl put it "Your friends with everyone!" Funny part... I was running solo that night.

This sounds amazing.... I really want to start bumping up my game... I got into PUA stuff like a year ago but kind of fell away from it. Im now in a new big city with thousands of people I don't know. Better yet im in college so there are lots of fine ladies running around.

1. A college kid in a new city, trying to make new friends, hopefully of the female variety.
2. Optimistic
3. Smooth

1. I'm an aspiring scholar, a chess player, and a freethinker.
2. Intrigued.
3. Elegant.

i will have to go in a minute so i will write an appropriate postreply when i come back!

i just wanted to say good luck XFMAN, it's a great post, and a great begining ...the post is brave and enlightning i will think about my answer...and i will improve myself!

Dammit, I was just getting into the routines

Great post!

my name is omer ,i'm israeli.im creative and i dont want to be usual.iim a day person,not a night. summer,not winter.pool,not resturant.

i dont care what type of natural i will learn to be, it doesnt matter to me as long as it works because i do it as an extra, it's not my goal !
as you said "be yourself"...i will! i'll be what i am.i will adapt to this community and learn from it, but will stay myself.I decide what influences me (my inner self)!!!![/u]

Yeah . . . I'd think that perhaps 2 to 5% of the lot will make it out of here as naturals. It's surely a possibility. Definitely a few posters here with great game.

Most will begin with canners and end their pua lives with canners, figuring out that "none of this works" after verbally and emotionally abusing set after set under the pretense of "negging and pushing". Thus when they get abused right back, they'll think "bitch shield"! and "Shit Test"! To which they will unleash even more insults, going around and around in the New World AFC vicious cycle.

The rest will remain in the PUA World of Milli Vanilli. There's really no shame in that. How many of us can write interesting short stories? How many of us can create comical routines? Anybody here ever write a poem? . . . that didn't begin with Roses are Red? That's why we have this forum to use as a shameless crutch to mostly "extract" 5 year old canners. Unfortunately, these old canners that were stale 5 years ago are really beginning to be annoying . . . even to pua's.

So I think this is where the new World of PUA is going. Like the World of literature, film, and music, pods of natural talents will sprout, offering pay services for target specific openers, routines, and strategies that are custom created for the paying individual. Mobile phones with small ear pieces will track real life progress and real life advice will be given via newer mobile technology. It would be like having a real life coach sarging with you, only you wouldn't look like an idiot with a big brother hovering around yelling at you to hold the girl's hand.

Forums like this would rate the professionals and would take a cut for its brokerage position and because mobile technology would allow it, the fat old naturals can come out of retirement and wouldn't have to leave his living room in order to connect to some kid and make a buck or two.

How a PUA see the world
Saturday, Sep 20, 2008

"Follow me into the rabbit hole and tell me how deep you want to go"

This community is a small Matrix in it, you can find many things, you can learn what you can't in books, this is what you where looking for...

YOU were looking FOR THIS, you wanted to find something that could change your pathetic and miserable life or at least, something that could motivate you and give you some hope.

Here you are and you stand in this ground, reading books, learning and watching closely.

And this feeling of uncertainty makes you keep reading but you try it and you fail, yo look for answers, you understand advices and the things you read as you want to, you ain't here for a quick fix, that doesn't exist.

When you finally start understanding this is when you start seeing things like a small eye movement when she is thinking, and you know what she is going to say. When with some eye contact and a smile you know that in 1 hour she will be hugging you.

You go out to search girls, we go out to live, we become energy suckers, we need to talk, we need to open we need to BE and BECOME every time we go out, we go for the love to party, we go out to experiment social dynamics, we go there to enjoy the flow of society we are the premium observers, we see what we want to see, we create our own reality, we hold it for a second more than everyone else, we push limits, we go insane, we aren't searching for what else we can do, we are searching for what we can't do.

"I'm trying to free your mind. But I can only show you the door. You're the one that has to walk through it."

Stop reading books! Understand them, internalize them, question everything the say, why that works?

BECOME what you desire.

"You have to let it all go. Fear, doubt, and disbelief. Free your mind."

We see each interaction as a unique moment passing by that can't be stopped but it can be enjoyed.

"The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. When you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of people we're trying to save, but until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand that most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it. Were you listening to me, Neo? Or were you looking at the woman in the red dress?"

We are the ones that see things the other way around, we are the new philosophers, we have our own thoughts and we have our own lifestyles.

This is a part of the next post that follows up the "Future of the community" (You should have an ideal model of Alpha male you wan to become)

This is fundamental things that you will understand as you think about them ...

Now chill, enjoy your day and LET YOUR MIND THINK IN YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS.


"It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth."

"Welcome to the real world."

_________________


My website: www.pualife.webs.com

New TWITTER account: http://twitter.com/xfman1

Facebook: xf_pua@hotmail.com