Unless your experienced and getting laid on the regular, this is for you.

A HUGE mistake most guys make is that they play it safe when approaching women. I want you to read this article and then for the next month implement it every night you go out.

How often do you get insta-blowouts?

For the next month your goal is to get insta-blowouts 50% of the time. Resistance does not count as a blow out.

"why you talking to us?"
"who the fuck are you?"
"eww...your gross looking!"

You get the point. Thats resistance not a blowout.

Anyways, your goal for the next month is to get insta-blown out by half the sets your approach. This will require you to be bold!

Whats going to happen is that your going to get blown out more than you ever have but your also going to get laid more than you ever have as well.

After a month use what you have learned from this exercise to calibrate your approaches from now on. Im willing to bet after this you will be a lot more bold!

Approach hard, be bold in your actions, be sexual and escalate like your life depends on it!

The half that doesn't blow you out, assume its on because more than likely it is.

Have fun.

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What would be an example of resistance, then?

I get the point, and I think it relates to something that a lot of guys don't realize, sometimes myself included. Shit tests are meant to be passed! The reason a girl gives shit test is to screen guys who freeze up or give up. They will become even more interested in a guy who shrugs it off. Resistance, similarly, is just the resistance that a lot of people have to social interaction with new people. After all, you never know what person just saying "hi" is actually a complete nutbag.

this whole business of insta-blowouts sounds kinda strange. I don't think people in society would like to get blown out...... especially women. This is a strange tactic. Whenever i go out with a girl i care more about whats going on in my world than trying to put her on a throne. I think most men will do whatever a woman says just to please her. its natural for men to want to please a woman but the truth is a woman wants a man she can talk to and enjoy being around when your not having sex. She wants a guy who has his own life going on. So it's not that i so much use a blowout or ignore her....... its usually that im thinking about my thoughts and shes attracted to the fact that im not just thinking about her the entire time. You cant do that fellas. Oh and watch out for black-outs from random dudes if you use the insta-blowout technique on their girl by mistake

LOL, you and I are talking about different things.

I'm not sure what you think a "blow out" is but its rejection. getting blown out would be approaching a woman and she tells you to fuck off and turns her back on you. Rejection. Thats a blow out.

My original post, in a nutshell, is saying that guys, when they first begin this stuff, arn't bold enough and they play it to safe. The mission seeks to correct that mistake.

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So is there mission to look back at the chick after a blowout and tell them to F off?

No where do I say to get rejected and tell the chick to fuck off.

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oh i get it. This posts just says to approach women more often because the more women you talk to the more likely you are to get laid. A numbers game basically with a little learning curve to improve the odds? That is good advice

approach more women and be more bold with your actions.

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and be willing to accept rejection without care. lol

Girls are attracted to guys who daydream whilst they talk to them are they? I always thought that they'd find them boring.

I guess that's just another MPUA trick that you have.

they just dont want you to be all up in their grill. To many men pay to much attention and try to give the girl everything she needs. Women are attracted to men who live their own lives and dont try to accomodate all the time

Warped, do you mean just to open more sets? Or you going with Gunwitch's old saying "make the ho say no" and suggesting we pursue a girl until she gives us a flat out rejection. Because those are two very opposite ends of the spectrum, in my opinion. One means you're just opening en masse and the other can mean committing more to one set until the blowout bfore moving onto another.

PUA MM, please dont' derail this while I look for legitimate answers.

That really has nothing to do with the current topic.

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What I mean is this: Guys play it way to safe when they approach women. They play to not loose instead of playing to win. Because of this, they don't close as much as they could. The exercise I proposed in my original post is designed to combat this problem by getting these kinda guys outside their comfort zone.

By making it a goal to be so bold that they get rejected (blown out) on half their approached for a month, it will show them just how to be bold as they should be.

Jeffy has a cool quote that relates to this:

"Again, that's just the thing: the "finesse" route is actually MORE trouble in the long run. I may have a couple blowouts over the course of a night, while Finesse Man is looking cool in his 2 hour sets, but whats the difference? Well, at the end of the night he gets a phone number and a "pleasure meeting you" coupled with a friendly pat on the back, while me and my crew are ACTUALLY FUCKING GIRLS." - Jeff Allen

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All this shit about building confidence and what not by getting rejected and what not is stupid. Without doubt the best way to build confidence is by getting accepted. Nothing will make you feel you can get a woman more than when you're actually inside one.
Nothing will get a girl in bed faster than being good bloke and being very funny, stylish and the best you can be.

I say this not as someone who doesn't know what they're talking about, but as someone who has slept with over half the girls I've approached in my life starting at 12 years of age.

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